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𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙖 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙚 𝙈𝙪𝙗𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙠 𝘽𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝘿𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨 𝙨𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙩𝙤𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙖 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣,

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙄 𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙪𝙥𝙤𝙣 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙮 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙉𝙖𝙢𝙚 '𝙎𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙙', 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙂𝙡𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨 𝙉𝙖𝙢𝙚,
𝙊 𝙢𝙮 𝙆𝙖𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙢 𝙍𝙖𝙗𝙗, 𝙢𝙮 𝘽𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙎𝙪𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙧, 𝙙𝙤 𝙢𝙚 𝙖 𝙎𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙁𝙖𝙫𝙤𝙧, 𝙖𝙣 𝘼𝙝𝙨𝙖𝙖𝙣, 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙮 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙖𝙛𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙧𝙨 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣...

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙂𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝘽𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙠𝙖𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝘼'𝙛𝙞𝙮𝙖𝙝 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨, 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙩𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙊𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪 ....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙬𝙚𝙖𝙠𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙬𝙝𝙞𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨 ...

𝙂𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝘼'𝙛𝙞𝙮𝙖𝙝, 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙩𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙛𝙚𝙩𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨, 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙗𝙤𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙮𝙚𝙨, 𝙞𝙣 𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙖𝙣, 𝙡𝙞𝙢𝙗 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙨....

𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙮, 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙨, 𝙢𝙞𝙨𝙜𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙚𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙧𝙨. 𝙊 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙈𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙤𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪, 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙤𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪, 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙤𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 ...

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙃𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙢𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙥𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙛𝙪𝙡 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙨....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙇𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙗𝙚 𝙖 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙆𝙝𝙖𝙞𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙗𝙤𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙'𝙨 ....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙄 𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙏𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝘼𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙖𝙩 ....

𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙩𝙮, 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙚𝙫𝙞𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙚𝙨.....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙋𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙩, 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙗𝙖𝙘𝙠, 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙡𝙚𝙛𝙩, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙬 ....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙋𝙪𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙤𝙗𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙢𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝𝙪 𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙞𝙝𝙞 𝙬𝙖𝙨𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙢 ...

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙋𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙨. 𝙇𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙨 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙞𝙣 𝙨𝙪𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣...

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙂𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝘿𝙚𝙚𝙣𝙞 𝙆𝙣𝙤𝙬𝙡𝙚𝙙𝙜𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙞𝙘𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙩𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙮𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙖𝙠𝙝𝙞𝙧𝙖 ....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙂𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙎𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖 𝙃𝙞𝙜𝙝 𝙈𝙖𝙦𝙖𝙖𝙢 𝙞𝙣 𝙗𝙤𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙𝙨 ....

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝! 𝙀𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙨, 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚, 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙, 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬𝙡𝙚𝙙𝙜𝙚𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙙𝙫𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙨 ...

𝙔𝙖𝙖 𝘼𝙡𝙡𝙖𝙝 𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙖𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙨𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩. 𝙂𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙞𝙣 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙥 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙥𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪.

𝙄𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙔𝙤𝙪. 𝙉𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧 g𝙪𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙣 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛. 𝙔𝙖 𝙧𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙡 𝙖𝙡𝙖𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙈𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙮 𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙪𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨.

𝙔𝙖 𝙝𝙖𝙮𝙮𝙪 𝙮𝙖 𝙦𝙖𝙮𝙮𝙪𝙢 𝙗𝙞 𝙧𝙖𝙝𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞 𝙠𝙖 𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙜𝙝𝙚𝙚𝙩𝙝.

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا
قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

*O our Lord, grant us from our wives and our offspring a coolness to our eyes and make us leaders for the righteous*

*‎آمین یا ربالعالمین*

🎯 *YA ALLAH I MAKE THIS DUA FOR MY CHILDREN AND FOR THE CHILDREN OF THE PERSONS WHO SENT IT TO ME AND FOR THE CHILDREN OF THE PERSONS WHO WILL READ IT IN FUTURE. AAMEEN.*

Showing filial piety towards your mother.

Al-Ḥassan Al-Basri رحمه الله تعالى said

“Eating dinner with your mother so that her heart is comforted, is better for you than performing voluntary Hajj.”

Birrul Wālidayn Li-Ibnil Jauzi, 4

May Allah have mercy upon our parents as they are merciful to us while we are young. Aameen

Slaughtering/sacrificing an animal:

بِسْمِ اللهِ واللهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُمَّ مِنْكَ ولَكَ اللَّهُمَّ تَقَبَّلْ مِنِّي

Bismillaahi wallaahu ‘Akbar
[Allaahumma minka wa laka] Allaahumma taqabbal minnee

With the Name of Allah, Allah is the Most Great!
[O Allah, from You and to You.] O Allah, accept it from me.

Muslim 3/1557, Al-Bayhaqi 9/287

[Source: Hisn al Muslim, dar-us-salam Publication]

Related Links: http://abdurrahman.org/category/islam/animal-sacrifice/

📌 Don't forget to recite Takbeer Al-Tashreeq after every fardh salah until Asr on the 13th of Dhul Hijjah.

📌 It is wajib to recite this Takbeer once after every fardh salah on the above days. Men should recite it audibly in a moderately loud voice and women should recite it in a soft voice.
لا إله إلا الله

📌 There is no deity worthy of worship in truth except Allaah.

Dear Allah,

When I complain of my child, remind me of the test that Adam and Hawa عليه السلام faced when Qabil killed Habil,

When I complain of my child, remind me of Nuh عليه السلام as he watched his child die in the waters when Allah ﷻ sent the floods,

When I complain of my child, remind me of Hud عليه السلام whose son refused to believe in Allah and remained with the non believers,

When I complain of my child, remind me of Ibrahim عليه السلام who was asked to leave Ismail عليه السلام as a newborn infant on the burning sands between Mount Safa and Mount Marwah,

When I complain of my child, remind me of when You ﷻ commanded Ibrahim عليه السلام to sacrifice his only son after almost 100 years, for Your pleasure,

When I complain of my child, remind me of Yaqub عليه السلام whose sons left Yusuf عليه السلام to die in a well, yet Yaqub عليه السلام held on to the belief that his son was still alive,

When I complain of my child, remind me of the mother of Musa عليه السلام, who was commanded to place her newborn baby in a bassinet and in the dangerous waters of the river Nile,

When I complain of my child, remind me of our mother Maryam عليه السلام, who gave birth to Isa عليه السلام alone under a date tree,

When I complain of my child, remind me of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ who buried all of his beloved children in his lifetime, with the exception of Fatimah ‎ رضي الله عنه ,

When I complain of my child, remind me that until today there are people who are struggling to conceive.

🤲 Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum, my child is an Amanah that you have blessed me with. I am grateful for this blessing, and I pray every single day that this Amanat will be the coolness of my eyes, as well as a bearer of the pillars of Islam.

Ya Allah bless my sisters who are praying for children with pious, healthy and beautiful children.

Ya Allah answer the prayer of every mother for her child.

Allahumma ameen!

Please do not stock up major portion of sacrifice/udhiya in your refrigerators.

Distribute to the poor and family members who are poor. We usually see that Muslims send more meat or good quality meat to family members that are already rich and send less meat or meat of lesser quality to those who are poor.

Please fix these mistakes, and send more meat to those who have less. Try to distribute as much as possible amongst the poor and needy.

“At least one third of it may be eaten , and one third given in charity, and one third given away as gifts(to neighbors, family members, friends).”
[Nayl al-Awtar, 5/145; al-Siraj al-Wahhaj, 563]

Eid is a time of Happiness and Joy

It's sad to see Muslims not being happy for Eid, being depressed, not dressing up in their best clothes, not attending Eid Salaah, not visiting family and friends and expressing joy and sleeping all day as if this day means nothing.

Unfortunately we are more excited for celebrating birthdays, anniversaries, bridal showers, baby showers even mothers day and fathers day all these celebrations which have NO basis in Qur'aan and Sunnah. We put so much effort, planning, decorating, even taking day off from work for imitation of the non Muslims. May Allah guide us to be thankful to Him for Eid and to express joy on this day.

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ.

Eid Mubarak.
تَقَبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا وَمِنكُم
May the blessings of Allah(SWT) fill your life with happiness and open all the doors of success now & always Aameen

Dress ur family in their best clothes for Eid

A father should be close to his daughter...

Shaving the Head of the Baby on the Seventh Day
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It is established from the Sunnah that the head of the child is to be shaved on the seventh day after the birth:

From Samurah (رضي الله عنه) that Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said:

“A child is held in pledge by his aqeeqah that is slaughtered on his behalf on the seventh day, and he is named and his head is shaved.”

📜Reported by Ahmad (7/5), Abu Dawood (2838), At-Tirmidhee (1522). It was graded 📠 Saheeh by: At-Tirmidhee, Al-Haakim, Abdur-Razzaaq Al-Ishbeelee and others.

Salmaan Ibn Aamir Ad-Dabbee (رضي الله عنه) said that: I heard Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) say:

“For the child there is an aqeeqah, so spill blood on his behalf (i.e. slaughter an animal) and remove from him harm.”

📜Al-Bukhaaree (5472), Abu Dawood (2839).

Al-Hasan Al-Basree (d. 110H, رحمه الله) said:

“The removal of harm is shaving the head.”

📜Reported by Abu Dawood (2840).

Some benefits concerning the shaving of the head of a baby:

Ibnul-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said in At-Tuhfatul-Mawlood (p.121):

“Removing the harm from him, and the removal of weak hair so that stronger hair replaces it, which is firmer than what was there before, and it is better for one’s head.

Alongside that there is relief for the child, and opening of the pores in the scalp so that the unpleasant vapour may escape with ease.

And in that there is a strengthening of the eyesight, the nasal passage and the hearing.”

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If your parents are with you, serve and honour them and if they have passed away, ask Allah to have mercy on them. Always be respectful to your parents and include them in the supplications you make for yourself.

Did you know that your baby's DNA/cells live in your bloodstream for years after their birth and in your brain for Your entire life? This phenomenon is called Fetal-Maternal Chimerism, Mother and child are connected in the deepest of ways, always and forever 🌱

It all starts with the parents especially the mothers. In some cultures the mother discriminates right from the start. They make the daughters clean the mess & dont let the son do anything in the house saying "ur a boy u dont need to help around the house".

The son starts thinking that he can make all the mess & never has to worry about cleaning as his sister is the cleaner. This later becomes a part of his mentality & then he expects his wife to do ALL the housework & treats her unIslamically.

Mothers teach ur son to help around the house. Teach them to follow the best real man ever, our Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam). Teach them to clean their own mess. Dont oppress ur daughters. Treat ur sons & daughter EQUALLY it is not permissible in Islaam to favour one & oppress the other children.

"A’ishah [رضي الله عنها] was asked: What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his home?

‎She said: He was at the service of his family, and when the time for prayer entered, he’d go to the prayer. [خ]"

https://twitter.com/abuadamfinch/status/1254711257598496768?s=21

Woman to cultivate her children.

Parents, raise your own children.

Take on the task of tarbiya ( التربية ) yourself. Take full responsibility for childrearing and do not outsource, delegate, or check out of this primary duty. Don't raise kids on autopilot, half-asleep, there but not there.

Don't allow your children to be raised by others: not by TV, or video games, or social media, or public school, or daycare, or friends, or screens, or other people's opinions, or mainstream culture.

Raise your children yourself, on Islam.

Be a fully present, conscious, intentional parent.

This style of active parenting is harder than passive, lazy parenting. But our children are worth it. They are our most important investment and our main legacy after our death.

May Allah grant us the strength and wisdom to be righteous parents who raise righteous children who raise the flag of Islam. Ameen.