Forwarded from Authentic Duas
Slaughtering/sacrificing an animal:
بِسْمِ اللهِ واللهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُمَّ مِنْكَ ولَكَ اللَّهُمَّ تَقَبَّلْ مِنِّي
Bismillaahi wallaahu ‘Akbar
[Allaahumma minka wa laka] Allaahumma taqabbal minnee
With the Name of Allah, Allah is the Most Great!
[O Allah, from You and to You.] O Allah, accept it from me.
Muslim 3/1557, Al-Bayhaqi 9/287
[Source: Hisn al Muslim, dar-us-salam Publication]
Related Links: http://abdurrahman.org/category/islam/animal-sacrifice/
بِسْمِ اللهِ واللهُ أَكْبَرُ اللَّهُمَّ مِنْكَ ولَكَ اللَّهُمَّ تَقَبَّلْ مِنِّي
Bismillaahi wallaahu ‘Akbar
[Allaahumma minka wa laka] Allaahumma taqabbal minnee
With the Name of Allah, Allah is the Most Great!
[O Allah, from You and to You.] O Allah, accept it from me.
Muslim 3/1557, Al-Bayhaqi 9/287
[Source: Hisn al Muslim, dar-us-salam Publication]
Related Links: http://abdurrahman.org/category/islam/animal-sacrifice/
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
📌 Don't forget to recite Takbeer Al-Tashreeq after every fardh salah until Asr on the 13th of Dhul Hijjah.
📌 It is wajib to recite this Takbeer once after every fardh salah on the above days. Men should recite it audibly in a moderately loud voice and women should recite it in a soft voice.
لا إله إلا الله
📌 There is no deity worthy of worship in truth except Allaah.
📌 It is wajib to recite this Takbeer once after every fardh salah on the above days. Men should recite it audibly in a moderately loud voice and women should recite it in a soft voice.
لا إله إلا الله
📌 There is no deity worthy of worship in truth except Allaah.
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Dear Allah,
When I complain of my child, remind me of the test that Adam and Hawa عليه السلام faced when Qabil killed Habil,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Nuh عليه السلام as he watched his child die in the waters when Allah ﷻ sent the floods,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Hud عليه السلام whose son refused to believe in Allah and remained with the non believers,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Ibrahim عليه السلام who was asked to leave Ismail عليه السلام as a newborn infant on the burning sands between Mount Safa and Mount Marwah,
When I complain of my child, remind me of when You ﷻ commanded Ibrahim عليه السلام to sacrifice his only son after almost 100 years, for Your pleasure,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Yaqub عليه السلام whose sons left Yusuf عليه السلام to die in a well, yet Yaqub عليه السلام held on to the belief that his son was still alive,
When I complain of my child, remind me of the mother of Musa عليه السلام, who was commanded to place her newborn baby in a bassinet and in the dangerous waters of the river Nile,
When I complain of my child, remind me of our mother Maryam عليه السلام, who gave birth to Isa عليه السلام alone under a date tree,
When I complain of my child, remind me of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ who buried all of his beloved children in his lifetime, with the exception of Fatimah رضي الله عنه ,
When I complain of my child, remind me that until today there are people who are struggling to conceive.
🤲 Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum, my child is an Amanah that you have blessed me with. I am grateful for this blessing, and I pray every single day that this Amanat will be the coolness of my eyes, as well as a bearer of the pillars of Islam.
Ya Allah bless my sisters who are praying for children with pious, healthy and beautiful children.
Ya Allah answer the prayer of every mother for her child.
Allahumma ameen!
When I complain of my child, remind me of the test that Adam and Hawa عليه السلام faced when Qabil killed Habil,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Nuh عليه السلام as he watched his child die in the waters when Allah ﷻ sent the floods,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Hud عليه السلام whose son refused to believe in Allah and remained with the non believers,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Ibrahim عليه السلام who was asked to leave Ismail عليه السلام as a newborn infant on the burning sands between Mount Safa and Mount Marwah,
When I complain of my child, remind me of when You ﷻ commanded Ibrahim عليه السلام to sacrifice his only son after almost 100 years, for Your pleasure,
When I complain of my child, remind me of Yaqub عليه السلام whose sons left Yusuf عليه السلام to die in a well, yet Yaqub عليه السلام held on to the belief that his son was still alive,
When I complain of my child, remind me of the mother of Musa عليه السلام, who was commanded to place her newborn baby in a bassinet and in the dangerous waters of the river Nile,
When I complain of my child, remind me of our mother Maryam عليه السلام, who gave birth to Isa عليه السلام alone under a date tree,
When I complain of my child, remind me of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ who buried all of his beloved children in his lifetime, with the exception of Fatimah رضي الله عنه ,
When I complain of my child, remind me that until today there are people who are struggling to conceive.
🤲 Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum, my child is an Amanah that you have blessed me with. I am grateful for this blessing, and I pray every single day that this Amanat will be the coolness of my eyes, as well as a bearer of the pillars of Islam.
Ya Allah bless my sisters who are praying for children with pious, healthy and beautiful children.
Ya Allah answer the prayer of every mother for her child.
Allahumma ameen!
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
Please do not stock up major portion of sacrifice/udhiya in your refrigerators.
Distribute to the poor and family members who are poor. We usually see that Muslims send more meat or good quality meat to family members that are already rich and send less meat or meat of lesser quality to those who are poor.
Please fix these mistakes, and send more meat to those who have less. Try to distribute as much as possible amongst the poor and needy.
“At least one third of it may be eaten , and one third given in charity, and one third given away as gifts(to neighbors, family members, friends).”
[Nayl al-Awtar, 5/145; al-Siraj al-Wahhaj, 563]
Distribute to the poor and family members who are poor. We usually see that Muslims send more meat or good quality meat to family members that are already rich and send less meat or meat of lesser quality to those who are poor.
Please fix these mistakes, and send more meat to those who have less. Try to distribute as much as possible amongst the poor and needy.
“At least one third of it may be eaten , and one third given in charity, and one third given away as gifts(to neighbors, family members, friends).”
[Nayl al-Awtar, 5/145; al-Siraj al-Wahhaj, 563]
Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
Eid is a time of Happiness and Joy
It's sad to see Muslims not being happy for Eid, being depressed, not dressing up in their best clothes, not attending Eid Salaah, not visiting family and friends and expressing joy and sleeping all day as if this day means nothing.
Unfortunately we are more excited for celebrating birthdays, anniversaries, bridal showers, baby showers even mothers day and fathers day all these celebrations which have NO basis in Qur'aan and Sunnah. We put so much effort, planning, decorating, even taking day off from work for imitation of the non Muslims. May Allah guide us to be thankful to Him for Eid and to express joy on this day.
It's sad to see Muslims not being happy for Eid, being depressed, not dressing up in their best clothes, not attending Eid Salaah, not visiting family and friends and expressing joy and sleeping all day as if this day means nothing.
Unfortunately we are more excited for celebrating birthdays, anniversaries, bridal showers, baby showers even mothers day and fathers day all these celebrations which have NO basis in Qur'aan and Sunnah. We put so much effort, planning, decorating, even taking day off from work for imitation of the non Muslims. May Allah guide us to be thankful to Him for Eid and to express joy on this day.
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ.
Eid Mubarak.
تَقَبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا وَمِنكُم
May the blessings of Allah(SWT) fill your life with happiness and open all the doors of success now & always Aameen
Eid Mubarak.
تَقَبَّلَ اللهُ مِنَّا وَمِنكُم
May the blessings of Allah(SWT) fill your life with happiness and open all the doors of success now & always Aameen
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Shaving the Head of the Baby on the Seventh Day
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It is established from the Sunnah that the head of the child is to be shaved on the seventh day after the birth:
From Samurah (رضي الله عنه) that Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said:
“A child is held in pledge by his aqeeqah that is slaughtered on his behalf on the seventh day, and he is named and his head is shaved.”
📜Reported by Ahmad (7/5), Abu Dawood (2838), At-Tirmidhee (1522). It was graded 📠 Saheeh by: At-Tirmidhee, Al-Haakim, Abdur-Razzaaq Al-Ishbeelee and others.
Salmaan Ibn Aamir Ad-Dabbee (رضي الله عنه) said that: I heard Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) say:
“For the child there is an aqeeqah, so spill blood on his behalf (i.e. slaughter an animal) and remove from him harm.”
📜Al-Bukhaaree (5472), Abu Dawood (2839).
Al-Hasan Al-Basree (d. 110H, رحمه الله) said:
“The removal of harm is shaving the head.”
📜Reported by Abu Dawood (2840).
Some benefits concerning the shaving of the head of a baby:
Ibnul-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said in At-Tuhfatul-Mawlood (p.121):
“Removing the harm from him, and the removal of weak hair so that stronger hair replaces it, which is firmer than what was there before, and it is better for one’s head.
Alongside that there is relief for the child, and opening of the pores in the scalp so that the unpleasant vapour may escape with ease.
And in that there is a strengthening of the eyesight, the nasal passage and the hearing.”
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It is established from the Sunnah that the head of the child is to be shaved on the seventh day after the birth:
From Samurah (رضي الله عنه) that Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) said:
“A child is held in pledge by his aqeeqah that is slaughtered on his behalf on the seventh day, and he is named and his head is shaved.”
📜Reported by Ahmad (7/5), Abu Dawood (2838), At-Tirmidhee (1522). It was graded 📠 Saheeh by: At-Tirmidhee, Al-Haakim, Abdur-Razzaaq Al-Ishbeelee and others.
Salmaan Ibn Aamir Ad-Dabbee (رضي الله عنه) said that: I heard Allaah’s Messenger (ﷺ) say:
“For the child there is an aqeeqah, so spill blood on his behalf (i.e. slaughter an animal) and remove from him harm.”
📜Al-Bukhaaree (5472), Abu Dawood (2839).
Al-Hasan Al-Basree (d. 110H, رحمه الله) said:
“The removal of harm is shaving the head.”
📜Reported by Abu Dawood (2840).
Some benefits concerning the shaving of the head of a baby:
Ibnul-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said in At-Tuhfatul-Mawlood (p.121):
“Removing the harm from him, and the removal of weak hair so that stronger hair replaces it, which is firmer than what was there before, and it is better for one’s head.
Alongside that there is relief for the child, and opening of the pores in the scalp so that the unpleasant vapour may escape with ease.
And in that there is a strengthening of the eyesight, the nasal passage and the hearing.”
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It all starts with the parents especially the mothers. In some cultures the mother discriminates right from the start. They make the daughters clean the mess & dont let the son do anything in the house saying "ur a boy u dont need to help around the house".
The son starts thinking that he can make all the mess & never has to worry about cleaning as his sister is the cleaner. This later becomes a part of his mentality & then he expects his wife to do ALL the housework & treats her unIslamically.
Mothers teach ur son to help around the house. Teach them to follow the best real man ever, our Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam). Teach them to clean their own mess. Dont oppress ur daughters. Treat ur sons & daughter EQUALLY it is not permissible in Islaam to favour one & oppress the other children.
"A’ishah [رضي الله عنها] was asked: What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his home?
She said: He was at the service of his family, and when the time for prayer entered, he’d go to the prayer. [خ]"
https://twitter.com/abuadamfinch/status/1254711257598496768?s=21
The son starts thinking that he can make all the mess & never has to worry about cleaning as his sister is the cleaner. This later becomes a part of his mentality & then he expects his wife to do ALL the housework & treats her unIslamically.
Mothers teach ur son to help around the house. Teach them to follow the best real man ever, our Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam). Teach them to clean their own mess. Dont oppress ur daughters. Treat ur sons & daughter EQUALLY it is not permissible in Islaam to favour one & oppress the other children.
"A’ishah [رضي الله عنها] was asked: What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his home?
She said: He was at the service of his family, and when the time for prayer entered, he’d go to the prayer. [خ]"
https://twitter.com/abuadamfinch/status/1254711257598496768?s=21
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Jameel Finch (@abuadamfinch) on X
A’ishah was asked: What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do in his home?
She said: He was at the service of his family, and when the time for prayer entered, he’d go to the prayer. [خ]
Note: Brothers, currently we’ re at home much. Why not use this time to service…
She said: He was at the service of his family, and when the time for prayer entered, he’d go to the prayer. [خ]
Note: Brothers, currently we’ re at home much. Why not use this time to service…
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Parents, raise your own children.
Take on the task of tarbiya ( التربية ) yourself. Take full responsibility for childrearing and do not outsource, delegate, or check out of this primary duty. Don't raise kids on autopilot, half-asleep, there but not there.
Don't allow your children to be raised by others: not by TV, or video games, or social media, or public school, or daycare, or friends, or screens, or other people's opinions, or mainstream culture.
Raise your children yourself, on Islam.
Be a fully present, conscious, intentional parent.
This style of active parenting is harder than passive, lazy parenting. But our children are worth it. They are our most important investment and our main legacy after our death.
May Allah grant us the strength and wisdom to be righteous parents who raise righteous children who raise the flag of Islam. Ameen.
Take on the task of tarbiya ( التربية ) yourself. Take full responsibility for childrearing and do not outsource, delegate, or check out of this primary duty. Don't raise kids on autopilot, half-asleep, there but not there.
Don't allow your children to be raised by others: not by TV, or video games, or social media, or public school, or daycare, or friends, or screens, or other people's opinions, or mainstream culture.
Raise your children yourself, on Islam.
Be a fully present, conscious, intentional parent.
This style of active parenting is harder than passive, lazy parenting. But our children are worth it. They are our most important investment and our main legacy after our death.
May Allah grant us the strength and wisdom to be righteous parents who raise righteous children who raise the flag of Islam. Ameen.
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Putting your children in an Islamic school does not mean you retire from parenting
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