A grounding truth for my fellow bi men
If a woman is threatened by the idea that you’ve desired men before, she will eventually be threatened by:
your emotional depth
your friendships
your independence
and your sexuality in general.
Bisexuality just makes that visible sooner.
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If a woman is threatened by the idea that you’ve desired men before, she will eventually be threatened by:
your emotional depth
your friendships
your independence
and your sexuality in general.
Bisexuality just makes that visible sooner.
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Why aren't lesbian relationships taken seriously?
It's so annoying and upsetting when your own family and even friend doesn't take your relationship of almost 10 years serious. Like oh "name" is living with a friend, she's single and my daughter is actually a virgin since she didn't have a P inside of her. Love between 2 women isn't Serious since there isn't a peen involved. She is just disappointed in men, but one day she will meet "the one" and will have a Relationship, Real feelings, and get married.
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It's so annoying and upsetting when your own family and even friend doesn't take your relationship of almost 10 years serious. Like oh "name" is living with a friend, she's single and my daughter is actually a virgin since she didn't have a P inside of her. Love between 2 women isn't Serious since there isn't a peen involved. She is just disappointed in men, but one day she will meet "the one" and will have a Relationship, Real feelings, and get married.
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This is what it’s like to bottom (receive anal) from another man
I often get asked on this app when posting about my experiences “what does anal feel like, what’s it feel like to get fucked by a man?” So I’m going to do my best to describe it. Disclaimer: not all fucks are equal some suck but when done right it’s an amazing feeling. I’m going to describe what it feels like when done right.
The key to pleasurable anal is to be relaxed. And you won’t be relaxed if you do not clean out your hole properly. That way no accidents happen and you feel comfortable. So that’s #1. #2 is your prostate and colon/rectum can be stimulated. It can be done by getting fucked, fingered, dildo’d/toyed with, licked. When stimulated this adds extra pleasure. When your prostate is pushed on it creates a feeling like you need to pee and you feel it at the tip of your cock. It can create a “buzzing” feeling right inside your ass and/or at the base of your cock and sometimes even a tickle feeling inside. #3 your hole needs to be worked in before with fingers or small toys. This will ensure you aren’t in pain when the cock pushes thru the sphincter. These are keys to feeling pleasure not pain or just feeling stretched. When the rectum/colon is stimulated you will feel more of the man’s cock when it’s moving back and forth. Imagine you arm is numb and you tickle it with a feather. As your circulation returns to your arm the more intense the tickle gets. That’s what it’s like when your colon/rectum is stimulated.
When a man’s cock first pushes thru my sphincter it can be painful at first depending on how big. The pain eventually subsides and is replaced by the feeling of like when you take a real nice #2 on the toilet. Everyone here has probably taken a poop before and had that “ahhh” feeling. My hole and rectum feels stretched. At first it’s hard not to clench as the cock begins to move back and forth. It’s like a massage in my hole, but it’s not exactly pleasurable at this point yet, my hole just feels full. It takes some time for my body to adjust, pressure can start in the abdomen. Air can get pumped in and be uncomfortable. As the abdomen settles and air is released this is when comfort starts to set in. The clench of the sphincter goes away and relaxes creating the classic “gape” which is when I know things are going to start getting good.
The longer I’m getting fucked the more and more the pressure/stretched feelings subside until it goes away completely and gets to a point the man can pull his cock out and my hole stays open/gaped and he can easily put it back in, take it out again and easily put it back in, over and over as many times as he wants and there is no pain or stretch feeling at all. My hole has now adjusted to his cock girth as it comfortably grips around it like a warm slick sleeve.
As I’m getting fucked my colon starts to get stimulated. I’m able to feel more and more the skin/head of his cock moving along it back and forth like this “grainy” feeling inside. My mind to hole connection builds and builds as I focus more and more on what I’m feeling while his cock fucks me. At this point the anal starts to feel pleasurable and not just like pressure and being stretched.
As my colon gets stimulated so does my prostate. My prostate starts to swell so with every thrust and impact I begin to feel like I need to pee (even tho I don’t). A tickle feeling begins to develop about 3-4 inches in. My cock which has been soft this entire time goes hard. The tickle feeling spreads to the base of my cock and throughout my abdomen. I would describe the tickle feeling almost like when your leg falls asleep and starts to tickle a lot when you move it. I have had the tickle feeling spread to the point of being at my fingertips and toes before. (I’m beginning to have an anal/prostate orgasm). My once relaxed/gaped hole starts to pulsate around his cock as pleasure intensifies. If he were to pull out now my hole would be “blinking” at him over and over. My sphincter is no longer in my control. It tightens and releases around his cock over and
I often get asked on this app when posting about my experiences “what does anal feel like, what’s it feel like to get fucked by a man?” So I’m going to do my best to describe it. Disclaimer: not all fucks are equal some suck but when done right it’s an amazing feeling. I’m going to describe what it feels like when done right.
The key to pleasurable anal is to be relaxed. And you won’t be relaxed if you do not clean out your hole properly. That way no accidents happen and you feel comfortable. So that’s #1. #2 is your prostate and colon/rectum can be stimulated. It can be done by getting fucked, fingered, dildo’d/toyed with, licked. When stimulated this adds extra pleasure. When your prostate is pushed on it creates a feeling like you need to pee and you feel it at the tip of your cock. It can create a “buzzing” feeling right inside your ass and/or at the base of your cock and sometimes even a tickle feeling inside. #3 your hole needs to be worked in before with fingers or small toys. This will ensure you aren’t in pain when the cock pushes thru the sphincter. These are keys to feeling pleasure not pain or just feeling stretched. When the rectum/colon is stimulated you will feel more of the man’s cock when it’s moving back and forth. Imagine you arm is numb and you tickle it with a feather. As your circulation returns to your arm the more intense the tickle gets. That’s what it’s like when your colon/rectum is stimulated.
When a man’s cock first pushes thru my sphincter it can be painful at first depending on how big. The pain eventually subsides and is replaced by the feeling of like when you take a real nice #2 on the toilet. Everyone here has probably taken a poop before and had that “ahhh” feeling. My hole and rectum feels stretched. At first it’s hard not to clench as the cock begins to move back and forth. It’s like a massage in my hole, but it’s not exactly pleasurable at this point yet, my hole just feels full. It takes some time for my body to adjust, pressure can start in the abdomen. Air can get pumped in and be uncomfortable. As the abdomen settles and air is released this is when comfort starts to set in. The clench of the sphincter goes away and relaxes creating the classic “gape” which is when I know things are going to start getting good.
The longer I’m getting fucked the more and more the pressure/stretched feelings subside until it goes away completely and gets to a point the man can pull his cock out and my hole stays open/gaped and he can easily put it back in, take it out again and easily put it back in, over and over as many times as he wants and there is no pain or stretch feeling at all. My hole has now adjusted to his cock girth as it comfortably grips around it like a warm slick sleeve.
As I’m getting fucked my colon starts to get stimulated. I’m able to feel more and more the skin/head of his cock moving along it back and forth like this “grainy” feeling inside. My mind to hole connection builds and builds as I focus more and more on what I’m feeling while his cock fucks me. At this point the anal starts to feel pleasurable and not just like pressure and being stretched.
As my colon gets stimulated so does my prostate. My prostate starts to swell so with every thrust and impact I begin to feel like I need to pee (even tho I don’t). A tickle feeling begins to develop about 3-4 inches in. My cock which has been soft this entire time goes hard. The tickle feeling spreads to the base of my cock and throughout my abdomen. I would describe the tickle feeling almost like when your leg falls asleep and starts to tickle a lot when you move it. I have had the tickle feeling spread to the point of being at my fingertips and toes before. (I’m beginning to have an anal/prostate orgasm). My once relaxed/gaped hole starts to pulsate around his cock as pleasure intensifies. If he were to pull out now my hole would be “blinking” at him over and over. My sphincter is no longer in my control. It tightens and releases around his cock over and
over nonstop.
At this point I’m having a full blown anal/prostate orgasm. Which can come in waves. It’s possible it will feel like it’s going away only to come back again. If you are someone that doesn’t like to moan or anything, at this point you can throw that out the window, you cannot help but moan from the pleasure. Blood rushes to my colon making it feel like it’s swelling. My cock begins to leak strands of cum (I’ve also leaked pee as well). The last thing in the WORLD I want right now is for him to stop or slow down, if anything I want him to fuck me even harder.
At this point there is ZERO feelings of pressure in my hole or it being stretched. It is completely wide open able to take anything he throws at me. The pleasure will last as long as he fucks varying in intensity. I’ve had ass orgasms more intense and pleasurable than penis orgasms. The fun part is they last much longer too. When you aren’t stimulated the feeling is quite simple, you just feel an object in your ass just moving around back and forth and if it’s a big cock the stretched feeling can be overwhelming and intense to the point you are laying there wincing the entire time and moaning not from pleasure but as a response to being stretched so much. But when done correctly it’s an incredible feeling.
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At this point I’m having a full blown anal/prostate orgasm. Which can come in waves. It’s possible it will feel like it’s going away only to come back again. If you are someone that doesn’t like to moan or anything, at this point you can throw that out the window, you cannot help but moan from the pleasure. Blood rushes to my colon making it feel like it’s swelling. My cock begins to leak strands of cum (I’ve also leaked pee as well). The last thing in the WORLD I want right now is for him to stop or slow down, if anything I want him to fuck me even harder.
At this point there is ZERO feelings of pressure in my hole or it being stretched. It is completely wide open able to take anything he throws at me. The pleasure will last as long as he fucks varying in intensity. I’ve had ass orgasms more intense and pleasurable than penis orgasms. The fun part is they last much longer too. When you aren’t stimulated the feeling is quite simple, you just feel an object in your ass just moving around back and forth and if it’s a big cock the stretched feeling can be overwhelming and intense to the point you are laying there wincing the entire time and moaning not from pleasure but as a response to being stretched so much. But when done correctly it’s an incredible feeling.
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Polyamory will not save your marriage. If you “need” to “suddenly accept” polyamory, else you loose your relationship? It’s almost always a waste of time and effort.
Hi, random person who’s arrived at r/polyamory.
This post might not be for you. In fact, I’m pretty sure if you are here because you’re genuinely curious about polyamory, and are curious how it all works? We have a ton of resources on the community info page. Read some posts, do some searches, carry on!
This post is for the people whose partners have put them in a position, for whatever reason, to consider polyamory in less than ideal circumstances.
You may have completely monogamous agreements . You and your partner may have had many years together in monogamy. You may have children. A home together. You probably have never considered polyamory.
You might be a part of a lifestyle couple. Maybe you are some whose marriage or relationship has been “open” in some flavor or way, under certain circumstances.
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have a crush! And poly is their true nature!
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have had an affair! And that polyamory is the solution, because they really love their affair partner, and that makes it different and not like other affairs. Polyamory is the solution!
Your partner has revealed that they have fallen in love with their side piece/FWB/non-romantic/sex-only/kink buddy/D/s power exchange (choose all that apply)! And that polyamory is the next logical step !
It’s not, mostly. Sorry.
Crushes are normal. They require no action. Polyamorous people also get crushes they cannot act upon. Monogamy, and fidelity take for granted that you will feel attractions to others…and do nothing.
Polyamory assumes you will get crushes, and those people will not be living in polyamory, or they will be unavailable for a relationship, with you, even if they are already building polyamory with other people…and do nothing.
If your partner had an affair? Polyamory isn’t an off ramp for people to legitimize their affairs and force acceptance from their very hurt, very betrayed partner. It doesn’t work.
Your boo fell for their FWB? They better get their grown folks pants on, and handle their shit.
Commitment isn’t optional in polyamory. Love isn’t a golden ticket to happy healthy polyamory, especially if your not-polyamory is rooted in the breaking of agreements and myopic misbehavior.
You cannot reframe a shitty monogamous relationship into healthy polyamory.
You can absolutely shift, as part of a couple, into happy healthy polyamory. Plenty of folks swing and do polyamory. Plenty of people open their marriages and remain married.
It requires that both people genuinely want to live in polyamory. Even if you never ever date outside your marriage and are always happy with only your OG partner, your entire foundation of your marriage will be ripped away, and everything will change. Even if you “always come first”(you won’t.)
If you’re both super into the idea of polyamory (real, nuts and bolts polyamory. With real people who get sick, and have their cats die, and get into car accidents. Who might, at the very least, think that they might have this stuff matter to the people who claim to love them) then your odds are 50/50, and that’s the best odds you’ll ever get.
Tell your partner to end their involvement with their affair partner and get yourselves to therapy, if you can. Polyamory isn’t an option for you right now. Your partner betrayed your fidelity and broke your agreements. This is problematic stuff.
Tell your partner that you aren’t interested in polyamory, when your partner tells you that they have fallen in love with their sex friend/Dom/co worker they fuck occasionally.
Tell them that as far as you are concerned, your agreements still stand. Let them work out the details. They can have all the NRE in the world, but without commitment, or the kind of connection that builds, good chemistry and pants feels only go so far.
Polyamory will not fix your partner’s
Hi, random person who’s arrived at r/polyamory.
This post might not be for you. In fact, I’m pretty sure if you are here because you’re genuinely curious about polyamory, and are curious how it all works? We have a ton of resources on the community info page. Read some posts, do some searches, carry on!
This post is for the people whose partners have put them in a position, for whatever reason, to consider polyamory in less than ideal circumstances.
You may have completely monogamous agreements . You and your partner may have had many years together in monogamy. You may have children. A home together. You probably have never considered polyamory.
You might be a part of a lifestyle couple. Maybe you are some whose marriage or relationship has been “open” in some flavor or way, under certain circumstances.
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have a crush! And poly is their true nature!
Your partner has come to you and revealed that they have had an affair! And that polyamory is the solution, because they really love their affair partner, and that makes it different and not like other affairs. Polyamory is the solution!
Your partner has revealed that they have fallen in love with their side piece/FWB/non-romantic/sex-only/kink buddy/D/s power exchange (choose all that apply)! And that polyamory is the next logical step !
It’s not, mostly. Sorry.
Crushes are normal. They require no action. Polyamorous people also get crushes they cannot act upon. Monogamy, and fidelity take for granted that you will feel attractions to others…and do nothing.
Polyamory assumes you will get crushes, and those people will not be living in polyamory, or they will be unavailable for a relationship, with you, even if they are already building polyamory with other people…and do nothing.
If your partner had an affair? Polyamory isn’t an off ramp for people to legitimize their affairs and force acceptance from their very hurt, very betrayed partner. It doesn’t work.
Your boo fell for their FWB? They better get their grown folks pants on, and handle their shit.
Commitment isn’t optional in polyamory. Love isn’t a golden ticket to happy healthy polyamory, especially if your not-polyamory is rooted in the breaking of agreements and myopic misbehavior.
You cannot reframe a shitty monogamous relationship into healthy polyamory.
You can absolutely shift, as part of a couple, into happy healthy polyamory. Plenty of folks swing and do polyamory. Plenty of people open their marriages and remain married.
It requires that both people genuinely want to live in polyamory. Even if you never ever date outside your marriage and are always happy with only your OG partner, your entire foundation of your marriage will be ripped away, and everything will change. Even if you “always come first”(you won’t.)
If you’re both super into the idea of polyamory (real, nuts and bolts polyamory. With real people who get sick, and have their cats die, and get into car accidents. Who might, at the very least, think that they might have this stuff matter to the people who claim to love them) then your odds are 50/50, and that’s the best odds you’ll ever get.
Tell your partner to end their involvement with their affair partner and get yourselves to therapy, if you can. Polyamory isn’t an option for you right now. Your partner betrayed your fidelity and broke your agreements. This is problematic stuff.
Tell your partner that you aren’t interested in polyamory, when your partner tells you that they have fallen in love with their sex friend/Dom/co worker they fuck occasionally.
Tell them that as far as you are concerned, your agreements still stand. Let them work out the details. They can have all the NRE in the world, but without commitment, or the kind of connection that builds, good chemistry and pants feels only go so far.
Polyamory will not fix your partner’s
inability to make good choices and handle their business.
Don’t waste your own time. Don’t throw away a year or three or ten living in polyamory when you never wanted it.
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Don’t waste your own time. Don’t throw away a year or three or ten living in polyamory when you never wanted it.
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When someone's telling you a sexual joke but you're highkey asexual
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I haven't posted here in a long time, but here are a few pics as an update for those who remember me haha!
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It makes me so emotional seeing trans people from an era when being queer was vilified and shunned from society 🥹🏳️⚧️💛✨
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