*How to Honour Your Parents After Their Passing?*
Honouring your parents after their death can be done in many ways, including:
1. Praying for them and seeking forgiveness on their behalf.
2. Fulfilling their wills.
3. Settling any debts they left behind.
4. Giving charity, or performing Hajj or Umrah on their behalf
5. Visiting their friends and family, as they used to do.
6. Fulfilling their wishes and completing any unfinished tasks they emphasised, even without a written will.
7. Maintaining relationships with relatives and friends that were connected through them.
8. Showing kindness and respect to their friends.
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Honouring your parents after their death can be done in many ways, including:
1. Praying for them and seeking forgiveness on their behalf.
2. Fulfilling their wills.
3. Settling any debts they left behind.
4. Giving charity, or performing Hajj or Umrah on their behalf
5. Visiting their friends and family, as they used to do.
6. Fulfilling their wishes and completing any unfinished tasks they emphasised, even without a written will.
7. Maintaining relationships with relatives and friends that were connected through them.
8. Showing kindness and respect to their friends.
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If someone is disciplining their child & you're around, please keep your mouth closed & let them handle their child. Don't try to convince them to let the kid off the hook or try to convince him/her to listen. Let them do their job. Intervening only makes the kid not take the parent seriously and makes the kid think when we're around people she can get away with anything. Parents are the one raising the kid, paying for all the expenses, making sure kid has a roof over her head, clothes on his/her back, food in the stomach and everything to ensure they become an independent, smart, humble, productive and respectful human. WITH ALL RESPECT—> LET THE PARENT DO THE PARENTING & MIND YOUR BUSINESS!
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✒ Make Duʿā For Your Parents
Prophet Muḥammad (Ṣallallāhu-ʿAlaihi Wa Sallam) said:
إن الرجل لترفع درجته في الجنة فيقول : أنى لي هذا ؟ فيقال : باستغفار ولدك لك
“Indeed a man's status is raised in Jannah and he asks: ‘Where did I get this from?’, so it is said to him: ‘By your child seeking forgiveness (of Allāh) for you’.”
● [مختصر صحيح الجامع الصغير برقم ١٦١٧ ، صححه الألباني]
Prophet Muḥammad (Ṣallallāhu-ʿAlaihi Wa Sallam) said:
إن الرجل لترفع درجته في الجنة فيقول : أنى لي هذا ؟ فيقال : باستغفار ولدك لك
“Indeed a man's status is raised in Jannah and he asks: ‘Where did I get this from?’, so it is said to him: ‘By your child seeking forgiveness (of Allāh) for you’.”
● [مختصر صحيح الجامع الصغير برقم ١٦١٧ ، صححه الألباني]
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Teach your children self-defense !
Al-Hasan and Al-Hussain were wrestling in front of the Prophet (ﷺ) one day and he was chanting, “come on let’s go Hasan.” Then Fatimah asked the Prophet (ﷺ) why aren’t you cheering for Hussain. He replied, “Jibril is cheering for Hussain to win.”
[Ibn Abi Shaybah in Al-Musanaf (7/514) isnad graded as being Hasan by Shiekh Mashoor Hasan Salman]
كَانَ الْحَسَنُ وَالْحُسَيْنُ عَلَيْهِمَا السَّلَامُ يَصْطَرِعَانِ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ: «هَيَّ حَسَنُ» ، فَقَالَتْ فَاطِمَةُ عَلَيْهَا السَّلَامُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، لِمَ تَقُولُ: «هَيَّ حَسَنُ» ؟ فَقَالَ: ” إِنَّ جِبْرِيلَ عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ يَقُولُ: هَيَّ حُسَيْنُ “
Al-Hasan and Al-Hussain were wrestling in front of the Prophet (ﷺ) one day and he was chanting, “come on let’s go Hasan.” Then Fatimah asked the Prophet (ﷺ) why aren’t you cheering for Hussain. He replied, “Jibril is cheering for Hussain to win.”
[Ibn Abi Shaybah in Al-Musanaf (7/514) isnad graded as being Hasan by Shiekh Mashoor Hasan Salman]
كَانَ الْحَسَنُ وَالْحُسَيْنُ عَلَيْهِمَا السَّلَامُ يَصْطَرِعَانِ بَيْنَ يَدَيْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ: «هَيَّ حَسَنُ» ، فَقَالَتْ فَاطِمَةُ عَلَيْهَا السَّلَامُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، لِمَ تَقُولُ: «هَيَّ حَسَنُ» ؟ فَقَالَ: ” إِنَّ جِبْرِيلَ عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ يَقُولُ: هَيَّ حُسَيْنُ “
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stop disrespecting your adult children and expecting them to stay quiet because you’re their parent. If you’re disrespecting your child as an adult expect your child to respond AS AN ADULT. The parent card can’t be played when you want to play it. It can be a respectful conversation or it can be disrespectful, you pick. Respect is earned and mutual but y’all not ready for this conversation.
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DEAR PARENTS IN ISLAM !!
If You can take your children for Shopping, Then why can't you take them to nearby Masjid.?
If you can wake them Up for a long journey, Then why can't you wake them up for Fajar?
If you can buy them stories and comics, Why can't you buy them translated Quran and hadith books?
If you can send them to high class tuitions, then why can't you send them to nearby Madrasa?
If you have time to watch movies with them, then why don't you have a bit time to spend with them for Islamic lecturers?
Dear Parents, please let us all reconnect with the Deen.!
If You can take your children for Shopping, Then why can't you take them to nearby Masjid.?
If you can wake them Up for a long journey, Then why can't you wake them up for Fajar?
If you can buy them stories and comics, Why can't you buy them translated Quran and hadith books?
If you can send them to high class tuitions, then why can't you send them to nearby Madrasa?
If you have time to watch movies with them, then why don't you have a bit time to spend with them for Islamic lecturers?
Dear Parents, please let us all reconnect with the Deen.!
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IT IS SUNNAH TO GIVE THE CHILD A NICKNAME
Among the educational principles laid down by Islam concerning raising a child is to give him a nickname composed of Abu (father of) and another part. This yields some educational gains such as:
- Inculcating a sense of dignity and respect into the child's soul.
- Developing his social character and making him feel that he has grown up.
- Giving him amiable treatment and pleasing him through calling him by this lovely nickname.
For these benefits and considerations, the Prophet (ﷺ) used to nickname children and call them by these names. It is related in Sahihayn that Anas (may ALLĀH be pleased with him) said, "The Prophet (ﷺ) was the best of all people in morals. I had a brother called Abū Umayr, who I think, had been newly weaned. Whenever the child was brought to the Prophet (ﷺ), he used to say to him, "O Abu Umayr! what did An- Nughayr (i.e. nightingale or bird) do?"
{Child Education in Islam || Page 44}
Among the educational principles laid down by Islam concerning raising a child is to give him a nickname composed of Abu (father of) and another part. This yields some educational gains such as:
- Inculcating a sense of dignity and respect into the child's soul.
- Developing his social character and making him feel that he has grown up.
- Giving him amiable treatment and pleasing him through calling him by this lovely nickname.
For these benefits and considerations, the Prophet (ﷺ) used to nickname children and call them by these names. It is related in Sahihayn that Anas (may ALLĀH be pleased with him) said, "The Prophet (ﷺ) was the best of all people in morals. I had a brother called Abū Umayr, who I think, had been newly weaned. Whenever the child was brought to the Prophet (ﷺ), he used to say to him, "O Abu Umayr! what did An- Nughayr (i.e. nightingale or bird) do?"
{Child Education in Islam || Page 44}
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Getting One Parent Angry to Make the Other One Happy
Shaykh Ṣāliḥ ibn Fawzān al-Fawzān
Categorized under: The Rights of Parents
Question to Shaikh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān, may Allāh protect him:
My father asked me to do something that would anger my mother; what’s the ruling on getting one parent angry in order to make the other one happy?
Answer:
This isn’t allowed:
فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
Let not be uttered by you to [your parents even the slightest expression of distaste like] “uff,” nor let any distasteful action ever come towards them from you, but rather be kind and gentle to them in speech [and action]. (Al-Isrāʾ, 23)
This is what Allāh, far above is He in His perfection, directed towards one’s parents, so it’s not allowed for you to anger—to anger both of them or to anger either of them. And if it were to ever be ordained that something happen from you that gets them angry, then you [must] ask them for forgiveness and be quick about that.
Al-Ijābāt Al-Mukhtaṣarah, Al-Ḥalqah 380.
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Shaykh Ṣāliḥ ibn Fawzān al-Fawzān
Categorized under: The Rights of Parents
Question to Shaikh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān, may Allāh protect him:
My father asked me to do something that would anger my mother; what’s the ruling on getting one parent angry in order to make the other one happy?
Answer:
This isn’t allowed:
فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
Let not be uttered by you to [your parents even the slightest expression of distaste like] “uff,” nor let any distasteful action ever come towards them from you, but rather be kind and gentle to them in speech [and action]. (Al-Isrāʾ, 23)
This is what Allāh, far above is He in His perfection, directed towards one’s parents, so it’s not allowed for you to anger—to anger both of them or to anger either of them. And if it were to ever be ordained that something happen from you that gets them angry, then you [must] ask them for forgiveness and be quick about that.
Al-Ijābāt Al-Mukhtaṣarah, Al-Ḥalqah 380.
https://tasfiyah.com/getting-one-parent-angry-to-make-the-other-one-happy/
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Question to Shaikh Ṣāliḥ Al-Fawzān, may Allāh protect him: My father asked me to do something that would anger my mother; what’s the ruling on getting one parent angry in order to make the other one happy? Answer: This isn’t allowed: فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا…
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Ruqya,Qareen & kids.If kids cry, scream, misbehave, don't obey, stubborn,wanting their way for no reason then it's a Qareen issue
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Forwarded from EvilEyes&BlackMagic
What is a Qareen?
A Qareen is a shaytan jinn that is born from a female and a male shaytans at the same time we are born.
It stays with us from birth until we die.
It does not die with us.
It is main purpose is to convince us to become kufar.
Otherwise whisper to make us commit sin or do less good deeds.
It whispers, it is up to us to obey or not. We are fully accountable.
We have another Qareen but is an Angel. It tells us to do good.
But in this post I am referring to the shaytan Qareen.
In total each one of us has 13 Angels that stay with us at all times except in the toilet.
One Qareen Angel to tell us to do good.
One on the left to write our sins. Supervised by one on the right to write our good deeds.
And then 10 protecting Angels حفظة, as mentioned by ALLAH in the Quraan, to protect us at all times except when the decree and Qadr of ALLAH does not allow them as we are destined to be harmed.
One of them stays next to our lips while we sleep to not allow anyone to put poison inside our mouth while we sleep.
But remember this post is about the shaytan Qareen.
Jazakum ALLAH khayr.
ولا غالب إلا الله
No one can give victory by force except ALLAH.
I ask ALLAH ALMOUTAAL ALHAY ALQAYOOM to protect us and save us.
نسأل الله السلامة و العافية لنا جميعا. اللهم آمين يا الله يا حي يا قيوم
السحر إن الله سيبطله
اللهم بارك و تقبل و فجر و دمر العيون و العين و الحسد و السحر و السحرة و الجان و الشياطين من الإنس والجن و المرض و اللبس و المس و كل عدو وكل شر.
اللهم آمين يا الله الحي القيوم.
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A Qareen is a shaytan jinn that is born from a female and a male shaytans at the same time we are born.
It stays with us from birth until we die.
It does not die with us.
It is main purpose is to convince us to become kufar.
Otherwise whisper to make us commit sin or do less good deeds.
It whispers, it is up to us to obey or not. We are fully accountable.
We have another Qareen but is an Angel. It tells us to do good.
But in this post I am referring to the shaytan Qareen.
In total each one of us has 13 Angels that stay with us at all times except in the toilet.
One Qareen Angel to tell us to do good.
One on the left to write our sins. Supervised by one on the right to write our good deeds.
And then 10 protecting Angels حفظة, as mentioned by ALLAH in the Quraan, to protect us at all times except when the decree and Qadr of ALLAH does not allow them as we are destined to be harmed.
One of them stays next to our lips while we sleep to not allow anyone to put poison inside our mouth while we sleep.
But remember this post is about the shaytan Qareen.
Jazakum ALLAH khayr.
ولا غالب إلا الله
No one can give victory by force except ALLAH.
I ask ALLAH ALMOUTAAL ALHAY ALQAYOOM to protect us and save us.
نسأل الله السلامة و العافية لنا جميعا. اللهم آمين يا الله يا حي يا قيوم
السحر إن الله سيبطله
اللهم بارك و تقبل و فجر و دمر العيون و العين و الحسد و السحر و السحرة و الجان و الشياطين من الإنس والجن و المرض و اللبس و المس و كل عدو وكل شر.
اللهم آمين يا الله الحي القيوم.
Please share so others can benefit in shaa ALLAH.
Contact us before it is too late for:
Ruqya, Hijamah,
Tib Anabawy, counselling, marital issues, advice, disputes, weddings, Nikahs, funerals, Khulaas and Talaqs.
00447591667336 & Viber ONLY.
Facebook private messages to:
Ruqya Sahir Buster
(Abu Omar Ruqya Almasry)
I ask ALLAH ALMOUTAAL to guide us and the Ummah of Rasoul ALLAH sala ALLAH alyh wasalam to the Haq. ALLAH um Ameen ya ALLAH ALHAY ALQAYOUM
الشريف. الشيخ/ محمد بن أحمد
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Ashareef. Shaykh/ Mohamed Bin Ahmed
(Abu Omar Ruqya Almasry)
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Relationship With Parents
(1) Never be disrespectful to parents. Do not say a harsh word to them.
(2) Even if parents are unjust, it is not lawful for children to ill-treat, disobey or displease them.
(3) Obey them in all lawful things. If they instruct you to do anything which is unlawful in the Shari’ah, then politely and with respect and apology decline. Never refuse rudely nor argue with Them.
(4) When parents abuse, scold or even beat their children, they should submit to such treatment with humility. Never should they utter a word of disrespect or complaint, nor should they display on their faces any indication of disgust or anger. Bear their treatment in silence and with patience. Make dua for them.
(5) Assist them in all lawful ways even if they happen to be non-Muslims.
(1) Never be disrespectful to parents. Do not say a harsh word to them.
(2) Even if parents are unjust, it is not lawful for children to ill-treat, disobey or displease them.
(3) Obey them in all lawful things. If they instruct you to do anything which is unlawful in the Shari’ah, then politely and with respect and apology decline. Never refuse rudely nor argue with Them.
(4) When parents abuse, scold or even beat their children, they should submit to such treatment with humility. Never should they utter a word of disrespect or complaint, nor should they display on their faces any indication of disgust or anger. Bear their treatment in silence and with patience. Make dua for them.
(5) Assist them in all lawful ways even if they happen to be non-Muslims.
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