The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “The child is attributed to the owner of the bed [in which it was born]…” (Al-Bukhāri 2053, Muslim 1457) The owner of the bed is the husband of a woman and no man can claim to be the father of a child other than the man who was her husband when the baby was born. However, if she was not married, the owner of the bed is the woman herself, so the child is attributed only to her and carries her family name.
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Reminder for Parents:
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
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It was narrated from Aishah that:
the Messenger of Allah said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.”
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 1846
In-book reference : Book 9, Hadith 2
English translation : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846
the Messenger of Allah said: “Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I will boast of your great numbers before the nations. Whoever has the means, let him get married, and whoever does not, then he should fast for it will diminish his desire.”
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 1846
In-book reference : Book 9, Hadith 2
English translation : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1846
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The pain of losing a child is unbearable for parents, particularly mothers. May Allah console them all and provide solace to their hearts.
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Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said:
“It is from wisdom that a person performs the optional prayers in his home, so his children can see and learn from him, and so the womenfolk can follow his example. Also this is so his house does not become a grave in which there is no prayer prayed therein.”
Sharh Bulūgh al-Marām 3/46 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
Translation: Authentic Quotes
“It is from wisdom that a person performs the optional prayers in his home, so his children can see and learn from him, and so the womenfolk can follow his example. Also this is so his house does not become a grave in which there is no prayer prayed therein.”
Sharh Bulūgh al-Marām 3/46 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
Translation: Authentic Quotes
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Parents don’t need your tears when they die. They need your hugs, laughter, love & care while still alive.
Life is short.🫀
Life is short.🫀
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The Great Responsibility of Parents: Nurturing and Educating Their Children
Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan
Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan
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🌥When you go home, always make your parents happy by kissing and hugging them. and don't ever leave the house when you know your parents are mad at you.💎
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
الله المستعان!!
How 'normal' is the bridal stage today?
How 'normal' is it for the fully adorned & excessively dolled up bride to sit on this stage while non mahram men look at her?
How 'normal' is it for non mahram men to video & photograph her in front of her dayoouth husband & mahram men?
How normal is it for these pictures & videos to be uploaded online & her beauty is seen by countless men?
Where is the Haya of women?
Where is the Ghayrah of men?
Where is the Hijaab?
Where is the Taqwa?
Where is the following of the Sunnah?
لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم!
How 'normal' is the bridal stage today?
How 'normal' is it for the fully adorned & excessively dolled up bride to sit on this stage while non mahram men look at her?
How 'normal' is it for non mahram men to video & photograph her in front of her dayoouth husband & mahram men?
How normal is it for these pictures & videos to be uploaded online & her beauty is seen by countless men?
Where is the Haya of women?
Where is the Ghayrah of men?
Where is the Hijaab?
Where is the Taqwa?
Where is the following of the Sunnah?
لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم!
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THREE DAUGHTERS.
The companion Jabir ibn Abdullah (radiAllahuanhu) reported: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) said,
“Whoever has three daughters and he
1. Accommodates them.
2. He is merciful to them, and
3. Supports them:
Then Paradise is guaranteed for them.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) what if he has only two?” The Messenger (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) said: “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Messenger (salallaahu alaihiwa-salaam) would have said even one.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 14247. Grade: Sahih
(authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
عن جابر بن عبد الله قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ يُؤْوِيهِنَّ وَيَرْحَمُهُنَّ وَيَكْفُلُهُنَّ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ الْبَتَّةَ قَالَ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ فَرَأَى بَعْضُ الْقَوْمِ أَنْ لَوْ قَالُوا لَهُ وَاحِدَةً لَقَالَ وَاحِدَةً
14247 مسند أحمد
22/150 المحدث شعيب الأرناؤوط خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في تخريج المسند.
The companion Jabir ibn Abdullah (radiAllahuanhu) reported: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) said,
“Whoever has three daughters and he
1. Accommodates them.
2. He is merciful to them, and
3. Supports them:
Then Paradise is guaranteed for them.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) what if he has only two?” The Messenger (sallallaahu alayhiwa sallam) said: “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Messenger (salallaahu alaihiwa-salaam) would have said even one.
Source: Musnad Aḥmad 14247. Grade: Sahih
(authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
عن جابر بن عبد الله قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ يُؤْوِيهِنَّ وَيَرْحَمُهُنَّ وَيَكْفُلُهُنَّ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ الْبَتَّةَ قَالَ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ فَرَأَى بَعْضُ الْقَوْمِ أَنْ لَوْ قَالُوا لَهُ وَاحِدَةً لَقَالَ وَاحِدَةً
14247 مسند أحمد
22/150 المحدث شعيب الأرناؤوط خلاصة حكم المحدث صحيح في تخريج المسند.
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Parents, teach your kids virtues like sincerity.
Teach them to mean what they say. Teach them to be genuine in treating others. Teach them to be intentional and to intend good.
Yes, when we grew up, we realized that some people whom we don’t go along with require certain level of “forced goodness” from us in order to be civil. Kids can learn this skill later but now, while they’re still raw, so innocent, plant in them what’s good.
A lot of adults have lost sincerity in their treatment to others and even to Allah. Life might have broken them naudhubillah. But hopefully, the future generation won’t. Let’s just plant the very basic of virtues now.
Teach them to mean what they say. Teach them to be genuine in treating others. Teach them to be intentional and to intend good.
Yes, when we grew up, we realized that some people whom we don’t go along with require certain level of “forced goodness” from us in order to be civil. Kids can learn this skill later but now, while they’re still raw, so innocent, plant in them what’s good.
A lot of adults have lost sincerity in their treatment to others and even to Allah. Life might have broken them naudhubillah. But hopefully, the future generation won’t. Let’s just plant the very basic of virtues now.
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I heard someone say kids are just different these days.
I disagree. Kids are the same. What's changed is a society with lowered expectations, lack of discipline, and acceptance of disrespect.
Give kids boundaries, expectations, rules, limits, rewards, and consequences – they will rise to the challenge and exceed your expectations every time.
I disagree. Kids are the same. What's changed is a society with lowered expectations, lack of discipline, and acceptance of disrespect.
Give kids boundaries, expectations, rules, limits, rewards, and consequences – they will rise to the challenge and exceed your expectations every time.
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Keep your young children off of devices and away from screens for as long as possible. Instead, memorize Quran, play outside, read books, make up stories, and bond deeply with your child.
~Umm Khalid
~Umm Khalid
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