An Advice To Sister's Who Aren’t Married, And To Men Responsible Over Her...!!
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رَحِمَهُ ٱللَّٰهُ Said:
I advise women in regard to marriage not to choose any man except one who has faith and character.
I advise women not to be hasty in accepting the one who asks for her hand until every aspect of him has been explored.
Fatwa’ Noor ‘Alaa ad-Darb, 10/31
+ It’s important to note that for you sisters, you will not be able to correctly judge another man by yourself, especially if it’s a man who you are interested in.
Imām Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله stated:
"Following the desires blinds the eye of the heart."
Al-Fawāid 101
Leave this Task to your Wali Who’s Responsible over You, if they however Judge him Incorrectly or Refuse him Without a Valid Reason, take your case to a Judge.
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Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رَحِمَهُ ٱللَّٰهُ Said:
I advise women in regard to marriage not to choose any man except one who has faith and character.
I advise women not to be hasty in accepting the one who asks for her hand until every aspect of him has been explored.
Fatwa’ Noor ‘Alaa ad-Darb, 10/31
+ It’s important to note that for you sisters, you will not be able to correctly judge another man by yourself, especially if it’s a man who you are interested in.
Imām Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله stated:
"Following the desires blinds the eye of the heart."
Al-Fawāid 101
Leave this Task to your Wali Who’s Responsible over You, if they however Judge him Incorrectly or Refuse him Without a Valid Reason, take your case to a Judge.
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An Advice To Brother's Who Are Married, And To Brother's Who Are Thinking Of Marriage
Ibn Aqeel stated:
When the wise man is alone with his wife, he should then leave his intellect in a corner as a respected shaykh and (start) joking and fooling around with her to give her and her soul it's rights. And when he is alone with his children, then he should come to them in their shape (act like them, be like them, etc.)
Al ‘Adab Shariyat 388/3
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Ibn Aqeel stated:
When the wise man is alone with his wife, he should then leave his intellect in a corner as a respected shaykh and (start) joking and fooling around with her to give her and her soul it's rights. And when he is alone with his children, then he should come to them in their shape (act like them, be like them, etc.)
Al ‘Adab Shariyat 388/3
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Two Of The Biggest Problems Our Societies Today Face:
1) Lack of Islamic knowledge is causing Shirk and Bid'ah to spread.
2) Feminine Dayooth men and masculine Tabbaruj women are on the rise.
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1) Lack of Islamic knowledge is causing Shirk and Bid'ah to spread.
2) Feminine Dayooth men and masculine Tabbaruj women are on the rise.
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#Shirk
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#Dayooth
#Tabbaruj
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Ramaḍān Had Ended Not Too Long Ago…
When was the last time you made Dua asking ALLĀH ﷻ to Accept your deeds from this most recent Ramaḍān?
How easy is it, that our hearts become distracted from asking for the acceptance of deeds that are so great in Magnitude!
If it had been a case where we’d receive endless amount of money if we made dua every single day for a year, none of us would fail to complete this task.
But aren’t our deeds greater than endless money in this Duniya? Where is our Aspiration?
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When was the last time you made Dua asking ALLĀH ﷻ to Accept your deeds from this most recent Ramaḍān?
How easy is it, that our hearts become distracted from asking for the acceptance of deeds that are so great in Magnitude!
If it had been a case where we’d receive endless amount of money if we made dua every single day for a year, none of us would fail to complete this task.
But aren’t our deeds greater than endless money in this Duniya? Where is our Aspiration?
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How Beautiful The Qur'an is And how can you, O Servant of ALLĀH ﷻ, How can you Exchange the Speech of ALLĀH ﷻ for the Speech of Shaytan?
May ALLĀH ﷻ Accept the Efforts of the Qari May ALLĀH ﷻ bless the Listener as well Aameen.
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May ALLĀH ﷻ Accept the Efforts of the Qari May ALLĀH ﷻ bless the Listener as well Aameen.
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An Ilm Knowledge Without Isnaad Is Like A Bird Without Wings
Abu Mu'awiyah Muhammad Qureshi وفقك الله
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Abu Mu'awiyah Muhammad Qureshi وفقك الله
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Life Is Like A Bad Woman
Ibn al-Jawzi Said:
“Life is like a bad woman. She will never be loyal to her husband and chasing her is no good.”
Al-Mushash p.270
Life is never going to be loyal to you, and chasing it is no good, it’s better to think of life as either a bad woman or man, to help you put it into perspective.
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Ibn al-Jawzi Said:
“Life is like a bad woman. She will never be loyal to her husband and chasing her is no good.”
Al-Mushash p.270
Life is never going to be loyal to you, and chasing it is no good, it’s better to think of life as either a bad woman or man, to help you put it into perspective.
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Advice Of Imam Abu Hanifa
Imam Abu Hanifah’s advice to his student:
“Don’t get married until after knowing that you’ll be able to take care of all its needs.
Seek knowledge first, then gather wealth from that which is halal, and then get married!”
الطبقات السنية ، ص ١٨٦ - ١٨٧
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Imam Abu Hanifah’s advice to his student:
“Don’t get married until after knowing that you’ll be able to take care of all its needs.
Seek knowledge first, then gather wealth from that which is halal, and then get married!”
الطبقات السنية ، ص ١٨٦ - ١٨٧
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Beautiful Relief
Umar Ibn al-Khattab رضي الله عنه said:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of ALLĀH ﷻ. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee (and you cannot flee from it).”
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Imam Bayhaqi in his Asma was Sifat p.243
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Umar Ibn al-Khattab رضي الله عنه said:
“No amount of guilt can change the past and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself for the outcome of all affairs is determined by the decree of ALLĀH ﷻ. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come on your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from you it cannot flee (and you cannot flee from it).”
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Imam Bayhaqi in his Asma was Sifat p.243
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Aakhira & Duniya Is Like Having 2 Wives
Wahb Ibn Munbih رحمه الله Said:
“The Parable Of The Worldly Life And The Hereafter Is Like The Example Of A Man Who Has Two Wives".
❝If He Pleases One Of Them, The Other One Will Be Displeased!❞
Kitaab Dham Ad-Dunya: 1/119
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Wahb Ibn Munbih رحمه الله Said:
“The Parable Of The Worldly Life And The Hereafter Is Like The Example Of A Man Who Has Two Wives".
❝If He Pleases One Of Them, The Other One Will Be Displeased!❞
Kitaab Dham Ad-Dunya: 1/119
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Verily, Sinners Laughed At Those Who Believed.
Passing by Them, they Winked at Each other.
Returning to their Families, they Returned Joyful, and when they saw them they Said: “They Have Fallen Into Error,
But They Were Not Sent To Guard Them.
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Passing by Them, they Winked at Each other.
Returning to their Families, they Returned Joyful, and when they saw them they Said: “They Have Fallen Into Error,
But They Were Not Sent To Guard Them.
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ⓘ Reminder For Myself First And Foremost
Do You Want A Religious, God (ALLĀH ﷻ)-Fearing Husband?
Do You Know What This Means?
This means that he won't invite you somewhere for your Birthday.
He won't celebrate Anniversaries.
He will want you to dress according to the Qur'an and Sunnah.
He won't let you attend gender-bending weddings.
He will not allow you to go out and return home at any time of the day when you want.
He will not allow you to communicate with friends who are far from religion.
He will expect you to strive for knowledge because that is what he will strive for.
won't let you work with men.
He also won't allow you to post pictures of yourself on social media, whether you're wearing a niqab or not,
because he is a Real Man and he knows what Jealousy is.
So when you talk about a Beard and Trousers that go above your Ankles and that you want to get Married for a Sunnah Man, know that you must be a Sunnah Woman.
Therefore, when you Dream of a Man who will wake you up for Tahajjud, know that you yourself must be a Woman who Prays at Night.
When you ask a Person to lead you to Paradise, you must First take this Path Yourself.
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Do You Want A Religious, God (ALLĀH ﷻ)-Fearing Husband?
Do You Know What This Means?
This means that he won't invite you somewhere for your Birthday.
He won't celebrate Anniversaries.
He will want you to dress according to the Qur'an and Sunnah.
He won't let you attend gender-bending weddings.
He will not allow you to go out and return home at any time of the day when you want.
He will not allow you to communicate with friends who are far from religion.
He will expect you to strive for knowledge because that is what he will strive for.
won't let you work with men.
He also won't allow you to post pictures of yourself on social media, whether you're wearing a niqab or not,
because he is a Real Man and he knows what Jealousy is.
So when you talk about a Beard and Trousers that go above your Ankles and that you want to get Married for a Sunnah Man, know that you must be a Sunnah Woman.
Therefore, when you Dream of a Man who will wake you up for Tahajjud, know that you yourself must be a Woman who Prays at Night.
When you ask a Person to lead you to Paradise, you must First take this Path Yourself.
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Advice of Imam Abu Hanifa
Imam Abu Hanifah’s advice to his student:
“Don’t get married until after knowing that you’ll be able to take care of all its needs.
Seek knowledge first, then gather wealth from that which is halal, and then get married!”
الطبقات السنية ، ص ١٨٦ - ١٨٧
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Imam Abu Hanifah’s advice to his student:
“Don’t get married until after knowing that you’ll be able to take care of all its needs.
Seek knowledge first, then gather wealth from that which is halal, and then get married!”
الطبقات السنية ، ص ١٨٦ - ١٨٧
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What is the virtue of reciting Ayatul Kursi before going to bed at night to sleep?
Anonymous Quiz
7%
You will be protected from the dajjal
55%
You are protected from harm till sunrise
1%
House in Jannah
37%
All of the above
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What's more important?
Correct Answer: Manner's
Abū Zakariyyā Yahya ibn Muhammad Al-'Anbari رحمه الله Said :
"Knowledge void of manners is like fire without firewood"!
"And manners without knowledge is like a spirit with no body"!
Al-Jāmi' Li Akhlaq Al-Rāwi: 1/12
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Imam Malik رحمه الله said:
My mother would tie the 'Imāmah on my head and say to me:
"Go to Rabī'ah! Learn from his manners before his knowledge"!
Tartīb Al-Madārik: 1/130
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Ibn Al-Mubarak رحمه الله said:
"A person does not excel in any kind of [islamic] science unless he adorns his actions with manners"!
Al-Adab Ash-Shari'yyah: 3/552
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Abū Zakariyyā Yahya ibn Muhammad Al-'Anbari رحمه الله Said :
"Knowledge void of manners is like fire without firewood"!
"And manners without knowledge is like a spirit with no body"!
Al-Jāmi' Li Akhlaq Al-Rāwi: 1/12
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Imam Malik رحمه الله said:
My mother would tie the 'Imāmah on my head and say to me:
"Go to Rabī'ah! Learn from his manners before his knowledge"!
Tartīb Al-Madārik: 1/130
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Ibn Al-Mubarak رحمه الله said:
"A person does not excel in any kind of [islamic] science unless he adorns his actions with manners"!
Al-Adab Ash-Shari'yyah: 3/552
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#Manners
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Sister, why is "Khadijah was a businesswoman” the only thing you remember about her?
You forget that she was a righteous woman.
A modest woman.
A woman with noble manners.
She was a wonderful mother.
A loving wife.
She obeyed her husband.
She had no trouble following him.
She was his biggest supporter.
She suffered hardship after hardship, but remained faithful to her dīn and to her husband.
She made her home righteous.
Next time you mention Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid Radiallahu ‘Anha, try to mention these qualities and characteristics as well.
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You forget that she was a righteous woman.
A modest woman.
A woman with noble manners.
She was a wonderful mother.
A loving wife.
She obeyed her husband.
She had no trouble following him.
She was his biggest supporter.
She suffered hardship after hardship, but remained faithful to her dīn and to her husband.
She made her home righteous.
Next time you mention Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid Radiallahu ‘Anha, try to mention these qualities and characteristics as well.
#ShareTheKhyr
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