The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:

“A man’s status will be raised in Paradise and he will ask: 'Where did this come from, How did I deserve this?' It will be said (to him): 'By your son's prayers, who sought forgiveness for you.”

Saheeh al-Jāmi' 1617 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Saheeh

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ:

إنَّ الرجُلَ لَتُرْفَعُ درجتُهُ في الجنةِ فيقولُ : أنَّى لِي هذا؟ فيُقالُ: بِاستغفارِ ولَدِكَ لَكَ

صحيح الجامع ١٦١٧ | الشيخ الألباني رحمه الله | صحيح

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Title: "Stories of the Prophets" (Chapter Book)
This book tells basic summarized stories of some of the prophets in chapter book form. Great for ages 8 years old to adults, insha'Allah!
LINK: https://www.almadrasaalislamiyanyc.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Prophets-stories.pdf

Home remedy for bed wetting

Bed-wetting is involuntary urination while asleep.

Bed-wetting is most common in children below 7

Bed-wetting in children is because of not completely developed nighttime bladder control.

Home remedy for bed-wetting

-Corn Silk
-Sugar(Optional)

Dry corn silk and grind it to make a powder.

How to use

-Bring 1 cup water to boil
-Add half tsp corn silk powder
-Add sugar to taste
-Boil for 5 minutes

Have this tea once a day.

Corn silk is the silky hair of corn.

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Dear Parents who are constantly angry,
Please read this.

Unpopular opinion, but the unhinged/angry/on the edge parents who are always screaming at their children and are constantly angry are the ones who don't invest in me time and prioritize themselves. They are so depleted all their frustration comes out on their children.

Please as a parent set aside a time to rejuvenate, reset and rest.

This can mean not showing up for other people, taking a mental health leave from job, this can mean asking family to step up to babysit so you can sleep or read a book or get a massage or facial. Whatever helps you calm down and show up with love, patience and compassion for your children - DO IT!

"Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will kill me inside out."

Words hurt ALOT.
Words can traumatize.

How beautiful are the words of the Prophet ﷺ, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent."

The tone you use, your eye stares, you screaming constantly at them will traumatize your children. That's not discipline and that's not how they will listen to you.

You are raising future of this ummah. Make the right choices.

🤲 May Allah help, protect and guide Muslim Parents - Allahumma ameen.

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'Aqeeqah (Newborns)

Once a baby is born, it is highly recommended to slaughter a sheep (one for a girl and two for a boy) as a means of gratitude towards Allah for bestowing the tremendous bounty of having a child.

The Prophet (sallAllahu ʿalayhi wa ’aalihi wa sallam) said,

Every child is in pledge (mortgage) for his 'Aqeeqah.

[Sahih (Authentic), Ibn Maajah, at-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood, Ahmad, ad-Daarimi, an-Nisaa'ee]

Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) mentioned that some scholars said this hadith means if the 'Aqeeqah is not done for a child, then the child will be prevented from interceding for his parents (on The Day of Resurrection)

[Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah), Zaad al-Ma'aad, 2/325]

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Mobile Phone Use 'Raises Children's Risk of Brain Cancer Fivefold'

(7 pages ex. cover)

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Educate and protect your daughters, and then put your trust in Allaah!
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Question: Is it permissible to adorn young boys with gold and silver if they are under 2 years of age?

Shaykh ʿAbd al-Azeez bin ʿAbdullah bin Baaz رحمه الله

It is absolutely NOT permissible for young boys to wear gold, even if they are younger than two years of age. Gold is permissible for females and is prohibited for males, whether it is rings, watches or other than that. It is not permissible to place gold on a young boy, just as it is not permissible for a grown man to wear it. Rather gold is for women only.

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If you're bad to your parents now, don't ask yourself in the future "why are my kids bad to me?"...

أمك ثم أمك ثم أمك!!!
Treat your mother well, no matter how she treats you. She sacrificed her life for you, raising you with care. Never treat her poorly.

The duty of the mother in raising kids is not easy...may Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى‎ bless the mothers who strive in nurturing & teaching their kids.

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Nurturing Eeman In Children.

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"

"Because I need to" she said.

"I don't understand," he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly.

The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). "He surely knows the answer", he thought. "Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"

The Shaikh answered: "When Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.”

The little boy got the answer and never asked the question again.

May Allah SWT bless all mothers and give them strength to be strong. Ameen

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Shaykh Ṣāliḥ al-Fawzān (حفظه الله) said:

❝When the woman is weak, the house is weak. When the house is weak, the children are weak. When the houses are weak, the society is weak.❞

[Muḥāḍarāt fī al-ʿAqīdah wa al-Daʿwah | Page 162]

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Shaykh Ṣāliḥ al-Fawzān (حفظه الله) said:

النساء حواضن الرجال وقواعد البيوت.
Women are the nurturers, fosterers, rearers, educators, and cultivators for the men [for that which they produce with them (i.e., the children)], and the foundation of the homes.

فإن فسدت الحواضن فسد المجتمع كله.
So if the women are corrupted, then the society in its entirety will be corrupted.

كما قال الشاعر:
As the poet said:

الأم مدرسة، إذا أعددتها أعددت شعبًا طيب الأعراق.
The mother is a school; if you have prepared her, then you have prepared generations of people possessing integrity and uprightness.

[التعليق القويم على كتاب اقتضاء الصراط المستقيم (٢٤٠/١)]

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Islaam taught us to be dutiful to our parents after the worship of Allaah, there are parents who are being harsh to their sons or daughters but still it taught us to be good to them make dua'a for them for their wellbeing, todays generation few children are being thankful and showing gratitude to their parents even their parents are being patience with their disobedience and neglectful to them, they are attached towards colleagues and friends let alone Haram relationships.

By the will of Allaah our parents are the reason for our existence in this world and upon us is to give their rights.

Kids Discipline.

“Play with them for the first seven years (of their life); then teach them for the next seven years; then advise them for the next seven years (and after that)." Ali ibn Abi Taalib radiyallahu anha.

·First Seven Years

In the first seven years, your goal is to build a strong connection to your child. This is the foundation, the base from which your relationship with them grows. If this is rock solid, the remaining years will be much easier. If this foundation forms poorly, the next years will be more challenging. If you have young children, this (first seven years) is the time to roll up your sleeves and invest, heavily, in your and their future.

·Next Seven Years

This is the time to teach them everything — aqeedah, halaal and haraam, fiqh, all the things they need to know to survive throughout their life. Qur’an and seerah are also very important. This is the time they are sponges, ready to soak up anything and everything you tell them, teach them, show them, and do in front of them. If you built that solid foundation in ages 0-7, they are now more than willing and happy to learn from you.

Teach them sports, too; Rasulullah (salallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: “Teach your children swimming, archery and horseback riding.” They gain many benefits from it, including physical fitness, learning teamwork, and sportsmanship.

·The Final Seven Years

Once your children hit 14, they are probably already mukallaf (full adults Islamically, and accountable for their actions) — this happens at puberty, or at age 15 at the latest.

At this age, you are mostly out of the picture. Children achieve independence; their personalities manifest; they look more to their peers than their parents and families. During these critical years, befriend them, advise them, and do what you can; understand that they are now full adults, and the choices are theirs to make, right or wrong.

If you worked hard during the last two periods of seven years, you will already be that trusted confidant, that advisor, that go-to person when they need help or advice. Be part of their lives, and advise them as best you can.

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Teach your daughters the value of modesty (haya) at an early age:

Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked:

We often see in women’s gatherings girls and young girls, around the age of seven years, wearing short or tight clothes, or strange haircuts, or haircuts for small girls that look like haircuts for boys. If we speak to the mothers and try to advise them, they argue that the children are still small. We hope that you can give us clear advice about children’s clothing and haircuts, may Allah bless you.

He Rahimahullah replied:

It is well known that the individual is influenced by things in his childhood and will continue to be affected by them after he grows up. Hence the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) enjoined us to instruct our children to pray when they are seven years old, and to smack them (lightly) if they do not pray when they reach the age of ten, so that they will get used to it, as the child will follow that which he is used to. If a young girl gets used to wearing short clothes that only come to the knee, and short sleeves that only come to the elbow or shoulder, she will lose all modesty and will want to wear these clothes after she grows up. The same applies with regard to hair; a woman should have a hairstyle that is different from that of men; if she makes the hair like a man’s hair, she will be resembling men and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) cursed women who resemble men.

It should be noted that the family is responsible for these children and their upbringing and education, as the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “A man is the shepherd of his household and is responsible for his flock.” So beware of being heedless; the father should be serious about the upbringing of his sons and daughters, and he should care for them, so that Allah will guide them and they will become a delight to him.

[Source: Al-Liqa’ al-Shahri, 66/10]

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