Parents, raise your own children.
Take on the task of tarbiya ( التربية ) yourself. Take full responsibility for childrearing and do not outsource, delegate, or check out of this primary duty. Don't raise kids on autopilot, half-asleep, there but not there.
Don't allow your children to be raised by others: not by TV, or video games, or social media, or public school, or daycare, or friends, or screens, or other people's opinions, or mainstream culture.
Raise your children yourself, on Islam.
Be a fully present, conscious, intentional parent.
This style of active parenting is harder than passive, lazy parenting. But our children are worth it. They are our most important investment and our main legacy after our death.
May Allah grant us the strength and wisdom to be righteous parents who raise righteous children who raise the flag of Islam. Ameen.
Take on the task of tarbiya ( التربية ) yourself. Take full responsibility for childrearing and do not outsource, delegate, or check out of this primary duty. Don't raise kids on autopilot, half-asleep, there but not there.
Don't allow your children to be raised by others: not by TV, or video games, or social media, or public school, or daycare, or friends, or screens, or other people's opinions, or mainstream culture.
Raise your children yourself, on Islam.
Be a fully present, conscious, intentional parent.
This style of active parenting is harder than passive, lazy parenting. But our children are worth it. They are our most important investment and our main legacy after our death.
May Allah grant us the strength and wisdom to be righteous parents who raise righteous children who raise the flag of Islam. Ameen.
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Putting your children in an Islamic school does not mean you retire from parenting
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Dont say to ur child 'Im watching you'
Say to them 'Allah Al Baseer is Watching you'
Make them have Taqwa of Allah rather than to fear yourself.
So many kids these days do things behind their parents back. As they end up fearing the parents rather than Allah ta'aala. This is part of instilling Tawheed in our children as well.
Say to them 'Allah Al Baseer is Watching you'
Make them have Taqwa of Allah rather than to fear yourself.
So many kids these days do things behind their parents back. As they end up fearing the parents rather than Allah ta'aala. This is part of instilling Tawheed in our children as well.
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Children want to see loving parents because they want to understand what a healthy relationship looks like. Witnessing affection, respect, and communication between their parents provides them with a positive model for their own future relationships. It sets a standard for the kind of love and connection they may seek in their own lives.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel secure and stable in their family environment. When parents demonstrate love and care for each other, it creates a sense of safety and predictability for children. This stability can greatly influence their emotional development and their ability to form trusting relationships later in life.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to learn how to navigate conflicts and disagreements in a constructive way. Observing parents resolve conflicts peacefully teaches children valuable lessons about compromise, empathy, and effective communication. These skills are essential for building strong, resilient relationships in adulthood.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel valued and cherished within their family unit. When parents prioritize their relationship and make time for each other, it sends a powerful message to their children about the importance of love and connection. This validation of their parents' bond can contribute to children's overall sense of worth and belonging.
In summary, children want to see loving parents because they are constantly learning and absorbing lessons about relationships from the world around them. By witnessing love, respect, and partnership between their parents, children gain valuable insights and experiences that shape their own attitudes and behaviors in relationships throughout their lives.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel reassured about their own capacity for love and connection. When they observe their parents sharing affection, support, and understanding, it reinforces their belief in the possibility of enduring and fulfilling relationships. This positive reinforcement can instill confidence in children as they navigate their own romantic experiences and develop their own understanding of intimacy.
Children want to see healthy, loving parents because they serve as role models for emotional well-being and self-care. When parents prioritize their own mental and physical health, it demonstrates to children the importance of self-care and setting boundaries in relationships. This modeling of healthy habits equips children with the tools they need to cultivate their own well-being and navigate future relationships with resilience and self-awareness.
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Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel secure and stable in their family environment. When parents demonstrate love and care for each other, it creates a sense of safety and predictability for children. This stability can greatly influence their emotional development and their ability to form trusting relationships later in life.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to learn how to navigate conflicts and disagreements in a constructive way. Observing parents resolve conflicts peacefully teaches children valuable lessons about compromise, empathy, and effective communication. These skills are essential for building strong, resilient relationships in adulthood.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel valued and cherished within their family unit. When parents prioritize their relationship and make time for each other, it sends a powerful message to their children about the importance of love and connection. This validation of their parents' bond can contribute to children's overall sense of worth and belonging.
In summary, children want to see loving parents because they are constantly learning and absorbing lessons about relationships from the world around them. By witnessing love, respect, and partnership between their parents, children gain valuable insights and experiences that shape their own attitudes and behaviors in relationships throughout their lives.
Children want to see loving parents because they want to feel reassured about their own capacity for love and connection. When they observe their parents sharing affection, support, and understanding, it reinforces their belief in the possibility of enduring and fulfilling relationships. This positive reinforcement can instill confidence in children as they navigate their own romantic experiences and develop their own understanding of intimacy.
Children want to see healthy, loving parents because they serve as role models for emotional well-being and self-care. When parents prioritize their own mental and physical health, it demonstrates to children the importance of self-care and setting boundaries in relationships. This modeling of healthy habits equips children with the tools they need to cultivate their own well-being and navigate future relationships with resilience and self-awareness.
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Witnessing my sister becoming a mother of 3 made me realize the depth of this hadith 👇
“Who is MOST deserving of my good treatment?”
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, “Your mother.”
The man asked, “Then who?” The Prophet said “Your mother.”
The man asked again, “Then who?”
The Prophet said, “Your mother.”
The man asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet said, “Your father.”
[Sahih Bukhari & Muslim]
This is how Islam have raised the status of mothers. It's sooo hard to be a mother pala. You have to endure all the pains caused by your hormones physically, mentally, and psychologically.
It never stops from giving birth. Being a mother means being a lifetime worrier and a warrior for your children.
Kaya brothers, please respect your wives. Make things easy for them, fill their hearts with love and reassurance and honor them.
They have endured carrying your children and you will never ever understand the struggle they went through and are still enduring and holding their sanity together just to make sure they're strong for you and your children.
Be kind and gentle to your wives and dear children, be kind and loving to your mothers.
“Who is MOST deserving of my good treatment?”
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, “Your mother.”
The man asked, “Then who?” The Prophet said “Your mother.”
The man asked again, “Then who?”
The Prophet said, “Your mother.”
The man asked again, “Then who?” The Prophet said, “Your father.”
[Sahih Bukhari & Muslim]
This is how Islam have raised the status of mothers. It's sooo hard to be a mother pala. You have to endure all the pains caused by your hormones physically, mentally, and psychologically.
It never stops from giving birth. Being a mother means being a lifetime worrier and a warrior for your children.
Kaya brothers, please respect your wives. Make things easy for them, fill their hearts with love and reassurance and honor them.
They have endured carrying your children and you will never ever understand the struggle they went through and are still enduring and holding their sanity together just to make sure they're strong for you and your children.
Be kind and gentle to your wives and dear children, be kind and loving to your mothers.
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I’m so bothered and disheartened to see mothers who post their teenage daughters online.
For the sake of Allah, PLEASE STOP!
Seriously, how can you display her beauty in front of thousands of men. You are the parent so protect her and teach her well. And some of you fathers out there are a disgrace, you sit back and enjoy the compliments your wife and daughter gets. SubhanAllah!
May Allah rectify the condition of our Ummah.
For the sake of Allah, PLEASE STOP!
Seriously, how can you display her beauty in front of thousands of men. You are the parent so protect her and teach her well. And some of you fathers out there are a disgrace, you sit back and enjoy the compliments your wife and daughter gets. SubhanAllah!
May Allah rectify the condition of our Ummah.
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That amazing moment when someone reminds a Muslim kid "Oh it's ur Birthday today"
And the kid replies "So what, nothing special. In Islam we don't celebrate birthdays"
This is what I call excellent parenting.
May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى reward those parents who instill following the Sunnah in their kids rather than pagan societal trends.
Indeed Messenger [ﷺ] said, 'All of you are sheperds and all of you will be questioned about their flock.'
Um Hamza
And the kid replies "So what, nothing special. In Islam we don't celebrate birthdays"
This is what I call excellent parenting.
May Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى reward those parents who instill following the Sunnah in their kids rather than pagan societal trends.
Indeed Messenger [ﷺ] said, 'All of you are sheperds and all of you will be questioned about their flock.'
Um Hamza
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May ALLAHﷻ bless our parents endlessly. We will not get anyone better than them in this world. Their Love is so pure and they're willing to face difficulties just to make sure that our life is full of peace. May ALLAHﷻ bless them and grant them paradise. A'ameen 🤲🏻💝 #parents #love #blessings #grateful
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The way a husband treats his wife sets a powerful example for the entire family.
If a husband shows love, respect, and kindness towards his wife, it fosters a nurturing environment where positive behaviors are modeled and learned.
As the wife experiences this treatment, she is likely to pass on the same love, respect, and kindness to their daughter.
The way a husband treats his wife has a profound impact on the emotional and psychological well-being of the family.
In turn, the daughter, having grown up witnessing her parents' interactions, will internalize these behaviors and carry them into her own relationships.
If she sees her father treating her mother with care and respect, she will understand that these are the foundations of a healthy relationship.
The way a husband treats his wife influences the next generation's approach to relationships and sets a standard for what is acceptable and desirable.
When the daughter begins dating, the values and behaviors she has learned at home will influence how she interacts with her boyfriend.
If she has seen her mother being treated with dignity and love, she will expect and offer the same in her own relationships.
The way a husband treats his wife not only shapes the immediate family dynamic but also has lasting effects on how children approach their own future relationships.
The importance of how a husband treats his wife cannot be overstated.
It creates a ripple effect that extends beyond the immediate relationship, affecting how the wife feels about herself and how she interacts with others, especially her children.
The way a husband treats his wife is a powerful lesson in respect, love, and partnership, which children absorb and emulate in their own lives.
If a husband shows love, respect, and kindness towards his wife, it fosters a nurturing environment where positive behaviors are modeled and learned.
As the wife experiences this treatment, she is likely to pass on the same love, respect, and kindness to their daughter.
The way a husband treats his wife has a profound impact on the emotional and psychological well-being of the family.
In turn, the daughter, having grown up witnessing her parents' interactions, will internalize these behaviors and carry them into her own relationships.
If she sees her father treating her mother with care and respect, she will understand that these are the foundations of a healthy relationship.
The way a husband treats his wife influences the next generation's approach to relationships and sets a standard for what is acceptable and desirable.
When the daughter begins dating, the values and behaviors she has learned at home will influence how she interacts with her boyfriend.
If she has seen her mother being treated with dignity and love, she will expect and offer the same in her own relationships.
The way a husband treats his wife not only shapes the immediate family dynamic but also has lasting effects on how children approach their own future relationships.
The importance of how a husband treats his wife cannot be overstated.
It creates a ripple effect that extends beyond the immediate relationship, affecting how the wife feels about herself and how she interacts with others, especially her children.
The way a husband treats his wife is a powerful lesson in respect, love, and partnership, which children absorb and emulate in their own lives.
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Being kind and dutiful to one's parents pleases Allah. And when Allah is pleased, He grants us ease.
Do not underestimate your duty to your parents.
Do not underestimate your duty to your parents.
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The Father-Daughter Link
Girls who are raised by strong, loving, just, and present fathers grow into emotionally healthy women who are happy to be good wives and good mothers.
Daughters of absent, unjust, or weak fathers grow up to be damaged, broken women who make nightmare wives and dangerous mothers.
Women who follow the modern liberal, promiscuous, hyper-sexual, self-endangering path typically had terrible fathers.
Fathers, raise your daughters well. Give them proper tarbiya.
The Prophet ﷺ said,
عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ يُؤْوِيهِنَّ وَيَرْحَمُهُنَّ وَيَكْفُلُهُنَّ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ الْبَتَّةَ قَالَ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ فَرَأَى بَعْضُ الْقَوْمِ أَنْ لَوْ قَالُوا لَهُ وَاحِدَةً لَقَالَ وَاحِدَةً."
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported:
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever has three daughters and he takes care of them, is merciful to them, and maintains them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one.
Muslim men, if you want to see more good wives and good mothers in the ummah, raise your daughters correctly.
The importance of the father in his daughter's life cannot be overstated.
Girls who are raised by strong, loving, just, and present fathers grow into emotionally healthy women who are happy to be good wives and good mothers.
Daughters of absent, unjust, or weak fathers grow up to be damaged, broken women who make nightmare wives and dangerous mothers.
Women who follow the modern liberal, promiscuous, hyper-sexual, self-endangering path typically had terrible fathers.
Fathers, raise your daughters well. Give them proper tarbiya.
The Prophet ﷺ said,
عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: "مَنْ كُنَّ لَهُ ثَلَاثُ بَنَاتٍ يُؤْوِيهِنَّ وَيَرْحَمُهُنَّ وَيَكْفُلُهُنَّ وَجَبَتْ لَهُ الْجَنَّةُ الْبَتَّةَ قَالَ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ اثْنَتَيْنِ قَالَ فَرَأَى بَعْضُ الْقَوْمِ أَنْ لَوْ قَالُوا لَهُ وَاحِدَةً لَقَالَ وَاحِدَةً."
Jabir ibn Abdullah reported:
The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever has three daughters and he takes care of them, is merciful to them, and maintains them, then Paradise is certainly required for him.” It was said, “O Messenger of Allah, what if he has only two?” The Prophet said, “Even two.” Some people thought that if they had said to him one, the Prophet would have said even one.
Muslim men, if you want to see more good wives and good mothers in the ummah, raise your daughters correctly.
The importance of the father in his daughter's life cannot be overstated.
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Dear parents, the teachers are the Madrasa are doing so well to instill the fear of Allah and Islamic principles in your children, please do not ruin their efforts by not practicing it!
Ruining their efforts is introducing and making the children’s daily life all about worldly music, dressing them immodestly in public, using hair extensions on them, being careless about the salah and so on.
Remember what the teachers are doing is actually your job because you are accountable for your child before Allah first and foremost.
They only spend not more than 16hrs with the teachers averagely in a week, so please put in more efforts.
We currently tend to now use these Amanah Allah has given to us as Aesthetics instead of raising a good next generation.
Dear parents you can do better.
Jazaakumullahu khairaa May Allah ease parenting for us, Aameen
Ruining their efforts is introducing and making the children’s daily life all about worldly music, dressing them immodestly in public, using hair extensions on them, being careless about the salah and so on.
Remember what the teachers are doing is actually your job because you are accountable for your child before Allah first and foremost.
They only spend not more than 16hrs with the teachers averagely in a week, so please put in more efforts.
We currently tend to now use these Amanah Allah has given to us as Aesthetics instead of raising a good next generation.
Dear parents you can do better.
Jazaakumullahu khairaa May Allah ease parenting for us, Aameen
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May Paradise be written for my parents and all parents of the muslimeen 🤲
Jabir ibn Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (pbuh) said:
Whoever has three daughters and he accommodates them, show mercy toward them, and supports them, Paradise is definitely guaranteed for him.
Thus, someone asked the Prophet, what if they are two daughters only
He replied, “[He gets that reward,] even if they are [only] two.“
Some of those present believed that had the Prophet been asked about only one daughter, he would have answered that the reward was applicable too. (Authenticated by Al-Albani)
Jabir ibn Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (pbuh) said:
Whoever has three daughters and he accommodates them, show mercy toward them, and supports them, Paradise is definitely guaranteed for him.
Thus, someone asked the Prophet, what if they are two daughters only
He replied, “[He gets that reward,] even if they are [only] two.“
Some of those present believed that had the Prophet been asked about only one daughter, he would have answered that the reward was applicable too. (Authenticated by Al-Albani)
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When you buy a phone for your child, make it absolutely clear,
This is my phone, I can take anytime I want. There will be no passwords on this phone ir security locks.
You cannot take it to your bedroom, or be alone with it. Before bed you'll leave it with me.
This is my phone, I can take anytime I want. There will be no passwords on this phone ir security locks.
You cannot take it to your bedroom, or be alone with it. Before bed you'll leave it with me.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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