As our children get set to return to school, we should seek Allah’s protection for them. The Prophet ﷺ would seek refuge in Allah for Ḥasan and Ḥusayn, saying:
أُعِيذُكُمَا بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّةِ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْطَانٍ وَهَامَّةٍ وَمِنْ كُلِّ عَيْنٍ لاَمَّةٍ
“I seek refuge for both of you in the perfect words of Allah from every devil and poisonous creature, and from every harmful evil eye.” [Bukhārī (3371)]
Note:
1) For 2 children, you would say as mentioned above
2) For 1 boy, you would say: أُعِيذُكَ
3) For 1 girl, you would say: أُعِيذُكِ
4) For more than 2 children, you would say: أُعِيذُكُمْ
أُعِيذُكُمَا بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّةِ مِنْ كُلِّ شَيْطَانٍ وَهَامَّةٍ وَمِنْ كُلِّ عَيْنٍ لاَمَّةٍ
“I seek refuge for both of you in the perfect words of Allah from every devil and poisonous creature, and from every harmful evil eye.” [Bukhārī (3371)]
Note:
1) For 2 children, you would say as mentioned above
2) For 1 boy, you would say: أُعِيذُكَ
3) For 1 girl, you would say: أُعِيذُكِ
4) For more than 2 children, you would say: أُعِيذُكُمْ
The obligations of the 'Shepherd'
The Prophet (May be upon him) said:
Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shal be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the children). A slave is a guardian over the property of his master and shall be questioned about it (as to how he safeguarded his trust). Beware, every one of you is a guardian and every one of you shall be questioned with regard to his trust. [Muslim 1829a]
One of the obligations that the husband/father (the "shepherd" of the household) is to ensure that all those under his guardianship (wives and children) have the opportunity and the means to acquire all the knowledge they need to worship Allah and live their lives as Allah has prescribed that we live our lives. If he has fulfilled that, then he has fulfilled his obligation and will not be asked about the sins of his wife and children. If he fails to fulfill this, then he himself will be asked about their sins and they are going astray based on HIS shortcomings in not fulfilling his obligations in this regard. [Jamal Zarabozo]
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The Prophet (May be upon him) said:
Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shal be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the children). A slave is a guardian over the property of his master and shall be questioned about it (as to how he safeguarded his trust). Beware, every one of you is a guardian and every one of you shall be questioned with regard to his trust. [Muslim 1829a]
One of the obligations that the husband/father (the "shepherd" of the household) is to ensure that all those under his guardianship (wives and children) have the opportunity and the means to acquire all the knowledge they need to worship Allah and live their lives as Allah has prescribed that we live our lives. If he has fulfilled that, then he has fulfilled his obligation and will not be asked about the sins of his wife and children. If he fails to fulfill this, then he himself will be asked about their sins and they are going astray based on HIS shortcomings in not fulfilling his obligations in this regard. [Jamal Zarabozo]
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
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Psychologist count a lack of emotional connection support and love from a parent towards a child as trauma, they often say a lot of marital issues stem from underlying issues from childhood.
So if they feel their spouse isn’t showing them attention or somewhat reducing their emotional attachment or appreciation (etc), rather than being slightly upset and managing it, they will feel as if a mountain has collapsed on them, their behaviour will be something very abnormally over the top and extremely challenging or difficult to contain or resolve.
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So if they feel their spouse isn’t showing them attention or somewhat reducing their emotional attachment or appreciation (etc), rather than being slightly upset and managing it, they will feel as if a mountain has collapsed on them, their behaviour will be something very abnormally over the top and extremely challenging or difficult to contain or resolve.
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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When Zuleiha made an attempt to seduce Yousuf (AS), Qur'an mentioned he would have done likewise if he didn't see a sign from his Lord.
This tells us that despite Yusuf (as) being pious, he would have also lost control of himself if there was no protection from Allāh.
It teaches a strong lesson that believers should accept themselves as weak and must be cautious when they engage themselves in interaction with the opposite gender.
You can develop temptations anytime and shouldn't celebrate yourself as a strong believer while roaming around the opposite gender because the only reason why your reputation is saved is that Allāh has protected your honour.
Be humble and accept we are weak and can't hold ourselves back from such illicit activities without the help of Allāh. Accept the reality that we can't control our emotions and how nature works, instead of living in a deceived paradise.
Whatever informal bond you have with a non mahram, it can never be pure of fondness. There will be a moment, second or minute where one side at least will feel something.
Save your reputation.
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This tells us that despite Yusuf (as) being pious, he would have also lost control of himself if there was no protection from Allāh.
It teaches a strong lesson that believers should accept themselves as weak and must be cautious when they engage themselves in interaction with the opposite gender.
You can develop temptations anytime and shouldn't celebrate yourself as a strong believer while roaming around the opposite gender because the only reason why your reputation is saved is that Allāh has protected your honour.
Be humble and accept we are weak and can't hold ourselves back from such illicit activities without the help of Allāh. Accept the reality that we can't control our emotions and how nature works, instead of living in a deceived paradise.
Whatever informal bond you have with a non mahram, it can never be pure of fondness. There will be a moment, second or minute where one side at least will feel something.
Save your reputation.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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No matter how old we are, even if there are children who care and love us, the love of a parent is still different. May Allah grant our parents the highest level of paradise. Aameen❤️
Al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“Have dinner with your mother, be kind to her, sit with her so that her eyes find comfort by way of you.
All of this is more beloved to me than making a (recommended) Hajj.”
بر الوالدين 4
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Al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“Have dinner with your mother, be kind to her, sit with her so that her eyes find comfort by way of you.
All of this is more beloved to me than making a (recommended) Hajj.”
بر الوالدين 4
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The woman of Jannah
Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
A poor woman came to me carrying her two daughters. I gave her three date-fruits. She gave a date to each of them and then she took up one date-fruit and brought that to her mouth to eat, but her daughters asked her that also. She then divided between them the date-fruit that she intended to eat. This (kind) treatment of her impressed me and I mentioned that to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) who said, 'Verily, Allah has assured Jannah for her, because of (this act) of her," or said, "He (SWT) has rescued her from Hell- Fire". [Muslim].
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Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
A poor woman came to me carrying her two daughters. I gave her three date-fruits. She gave a date to each of them and then she took up one date-fruit and brought that to her mouth to eat, but her daughters asked her that also. She then divided between them the date-fruit that she intended to eat. This (kind) treatment of her impressed me and I mentioned that to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) who said, 'Verily, Allah has assured Jannah for her, because of (this act) of her," or said, "He (SWT) has rescued her from Hell- Fire". [Muslim].
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The Story of Umar (R) losing the custody of his son
In case of a dispute between the father and mother- the mother has most rights. Then grandmother from the maternal side.
Malik related to me that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard al- Qasim ibn Muhammad say, "A woman of the Ansar was married to Umar ibn al-Khattab. She bore Asim ibn Umar to him, and then he separated from her. Umar came to Quba and found his son Asim playing in the courtyard of the mosque. He took him by the arm and placed him before him on his mount. The grandmother of the child saw him and argued with Umar about the child so they went to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq. Umar said, 'My son.' The woman said, 'My son.' Abu Bakr said, 'Do not interfere between a child and its mother.' Umar did not repeat his words."
Yahya said that he heard Malik say, "This is what I would have done in that situation." [ Malik Muwatta Hadith 1463]
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In case of a dispute between the father and mother- the mother has most rights. Then grandmother from the maternal side.
Malik related to me that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard al- Qasim ibn Muhammad say, "A woman of the Ansar was married to Umar ibn al-Khattab. She bore Asim ibn Umar to him, and then he separated from her. Umar came to Quba and found his son Asim playing in the courtyard of the mosque. He took him by the arm and placed him before him on his mount. The grandmother of the child saw him and argued with Umar about the child so they went to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq. Umar said, 'My son.' The woman said, 'My son.' Abu Bakr said, 'Do not interfere between a child and its mother.' Umar did not repeat his words."
Yahya said that he heard Malik say, "This is what I would have done in that situation." [ Malik Muwatta Hadith 1463]
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Ladies, wake up before your children become woke up.
Take control of your family and home with that which you want your family and home to be built upon.
If you don’t teach your children their religion, they will easily be fooled when those who want them, come with their false statements to “argue with a Muslim”…
To teach our children the religion, we first have to know ours.
If you swipe the slides and see the untruths this book is saying to argue with a Muslim to push the LGBT ideology- their argument isn’t even factual! (Also a lesson as to why those without knowledge should not speak about Islam because we do not know what we do not know)
I remember years ago seeing a BBC news report talking to a gay head teacher in Birmingham.
He had a big smile on his face as he proudly proclaimed he had a little 5 year old girl in his school who “BELIEVES it’s okay to have two dads”…
The key word here is BELIEVE.
These people do not want tolerance. They do not want you to live your way and they live theirs. They want you to BELIEVE their ideology is right and they will not stop until they do.
They know they will not win you over. Which is why they are going after your children.
It is a cult. It is an ideology. It is a religion.
Saying this doesn’t mean we are homophobic or transphobic, just as those who disbelieve in Islam doesn’t make them Islamophobic.
It means we do not want their beliefs and ideologies forced upon our children because those children belong to us, not them.
Ladies you have to know what is happening.
You have to protect your children.
Because if you don’t, they are easy pray.
There is no excuse for any of us, no matter where we live.
As the famous quote says:
“We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans”
May Allah aid us, guide us, and guide our children.
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Take control of your family and home with that which you want your family and home to be built upon.
If you don’t teach your children their religion, they will easily be fooled when those who want them, come with their false statements to “argue with a Muslim”…
To teach our children the religion, we first have to know ours.
If you swipe the slides and see the untruths this book is saying to argue with a Muslim to push the LGBT ideology- their argument isn’t even factual! (Also a lesson as to why those without knowledge should not speak about Islam because we do not know what we do not know)
I remember years ago seeing a BBC news report talking to a gay head teacher in Birmingham.
He had a big smile on his face as he proudly proclaimed he had a little 5 year old girl in his school who “BELIEVES it’s okay to have two dads”…
The key word here is BELIEVE.
These people do not want tolerance. They do not want you to live your way and they live theirs. They want you to BELIEVE their ideology is right and they will not stop until they do.
They know they will not win you over. Which is why they are going after your children.
It is a cult. It is an ideology. It is a religion.
Saying this doesn’t mean we are homophobic or transphobic, just as those who disbelieve in Islam doesn’t make them Islamophobic.
It means we do not want their beliefs and ideologies forced upon our children because those children belong to us, not them.
Ladies you have to know what is happening.
You have to protect your children.
Because if you don’t, they are easy pray.
There is no excuse for any of us, no matter where we live.
As the famous quote says:
“We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans”
May Allah aid us, guide us, and guide our children.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
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Hasan Al-Basrī رحمه الله said:
“Looking at the face of the mother is an act of worship!
So how about obeying her?”
[Musnad Ibn Mubārak: 146]
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“Looking at the face of the mother is an act of worship!
So how about obeying her?”
[Musnad Ibn Mubārak: 146]
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Muslim men must give much much time to their sons and daughters, otherwise there are many Satans in the name of humans waiting for them to lead them astray.Giving time to children is more important than earning money.
Earn money what can suffice you and give much time to kids.
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Earn money what can suffice you and give much time to kids.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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If you’re doing an obligatory prayer and your parents call for you, you don’t have to answer them.
If however you’re doing a supererogatory prayer and your parents call for you, according to some jurists you can answer them, and according to others you only have to answer your mother but not your father because your mother has more right over you.
Source: Fatḥ al-Bārī fī Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī by Ibn Rajab al-Ḥanbalī (d. 795 AH).
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If however you’re doing a supererogatory prayer and your parents call for you, according to some jurists you can answer them, and according to others you only have to answer your mother but not your father because your mother has more right over you.
Source: Fatḥ al-Bārī fī Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī by Ibn Rajab al-Ḥanbalī (d. 795 AH).
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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