The obligations of the 'Shepherd'
The Prophet (May be upon him) said:
Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shal be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the children). A slave is a guardian over the property of his master and shall be questioned about it (as to how he safeguarded his trust). Beware, every one of you is a guardian and every one of you shall be questioned with regard to his trust. [Muslim 1829a]
One of the obligations that the husband/father (the "shepherd" of the household) is to ensure that all those under his guardianship (wives and children) have the opportunity and the means to acquire all the knowledge they need to worship Allah and live their lives as Allah has prescribed that we live our lives. If he has fulfilled that, then he has fulfilled his obligation and will not be asked about the sins of his wife and children. If he fails to fulfill this, then he himself will be asked about their sins and they are going astray based on HIS shortcomings in not fulfilling his obligations in this regard. [Jamal Zarabozo]
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The Prophet (May be upon him) said:
Beware. every one of you is a shepherd and every one is answerable with regard to his flock. The Caliph is a shepherd over the people and shall be questioned about his subjects (as to how he conducted their affairs). A man is a guardian over the members of his family and shal be questioned about them (as to how he looked after their physical and moral well-being). A woman is a guardian over the household of her husband and his children and shall be questioned about them (as to how she managed the household and brought up the children). A slave is a guardian over the property of his master and shall be questioned about it (as to how he safeguarded his trust). Beware, every one of you is a guardian and every one of you shall be questioned with regard to his trust. [Muslim 1829a]
One of the obligations that the husband/father (the "shepherd" of the household) is to ensure that all those under his guardianship (wives and children) have the opportunity and the means to acquire all the knowledge they need to worship Allah and live their lives as Allah has prescribed that we live our lives. If he has fulfilled that, then he has fulfilled his obligation and will not be asked about the sins of his wife and children. If he fails to fulfill this, then he himself will be asked about their sins and they are going astray based on HIS shortcomings in not fulfilling his obligations in this regard. [Jamal Zarabozo]
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Psychologist count a lack of emotional connection support and love from a parent towards a child as trauma, they often say a lot of marital issues stem from underlying issues from childhood.
So if they feel their spouse isn’t showing them attention or somewhat reducing their emotional attachment or appreciation (etc), rather than being slightly upset and managing it, they will feel as if a mountain has collapsed on them, their behaviour will be something very abnormally over the top and extremely challenging or difficult to contain or resolve.
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So if they feel their spouse isn’t showing them attention or somewhat reducing their emotional attachment or appreciation (etc), rather than being slightly upset and managing it, they will feel as if a mountain has collapsed on them, their behaviour will be something very abnormally over the top and extremely challenging or difficult to contain or resolve.
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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When Zuleiha made an attempt to seduce Yousuf (AS), Qur'an mentioned he would have done likewise if he didn't see a sign from his Lord.
This tells us that despite Yusuf (as) being pious, he would have also lost control of himself if there was no protection from Allāh.
It teaches a strong lesson that believers should accept themselves as weak and must be cautious when they engage themselves in interaction with the opposite gender.
You can develop temptations anytime and shouldn't celebrate yourself as a strong believer while roaming around the opposite gender because the only reason why your reputation is saved is that Allāh has protected your honour.
Be humble and accept we are weak and can't hold ourselves back from such illicit activities without the help of Allāh. Accept the reality that we can't control our emotions and how nature works, instead of living in a deceived paradise.
Whatever informal bond you have with a non mahram, it can never be pure of fondness. There will be a moment, second or minute where one side at least will feel something.
Save your reputation.
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This tells us that despite Yusuf (as) being pious, he would have also lost control of himself if there was no protection from Allāh.
It teaches a strong lesson that believers should accept themselves as weak and must be cautious when they engage themselves in interaction with the opposite gender.
You can develop temptations anytime and shouldn't celebrate yourself as a strong believer while roaming around the opposite gender because the only reason why your reputation is saved is that Allāh has protected your honour.
Be humble and accept we are weak and can't hold ourselves back from such illicit activities without the help of Allāh. Accept the reality that we can't control our emotions and how nature works, instead of living in a deceived paradise.
Whatever informal bond you have with a non mahram, it can never be pure of fondness. There will be a moment, second or minute where one side at least will feel something.
Save your reputation.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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No matter how old we are, even if there are children who care and love us, the love of a parent is still different. May Allah grant our parents the highest level of paradise. Aameen❤️
Al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“Have dinner with your mother, be kind to her, sit with her so that her eyes find comfort by way of you.
All of this is more beloved to me than making a (recommended) Hajj.”
بر الوالدين 4
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Al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said:
“Have dinner with your mother, be kind to her, sit with her so that her eyes find comfort by way of you.
All of this is more beloved to me than making a (recommended) Hajj.”
بر الوالدين 4
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The woman of Jannah
Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
A poor woman came to me carrying her two daughters. I gave her three date-fruits. She gave a date to each of them and then she took up one date-fruit and brought that to her mouth to eat, but her daughters asked her that also. She then divided between them the date-fruit that she intended to eat. This (kind) treatment of her impressed me and I mentioned that to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) who said, 'Verily, Allah has assured Jannah for her, because of (this act) of her," or said, "He (SWT) has rescued her from Hell- Fire". [Muslim].
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Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
A poor woman came to me carrying her two daughters. I gave her three date-fruits. She gave a date to each of them and then she took up one date-fruit and brought that to her mouth to eat, but her daughters asked her that also. She then divided between them the date-fruit that she intended to eat. This (kind) treatment of her impressed me and I mentioned that to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) who said, 'Verily, Allah has assured Jannah for her, because of (this act) of her," or said, "He (SWT) has rescued her from Hell- Fire". [Muslim].
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The Story of Umar (R) losing the custody of his son
In case of a dispute between the father and mother- the mother has most rights. Then grandmother from the maternal side.
Malik related to me that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard al- Qasim ibn Muhammad say, "A woman of the Ansar was married to Umar ibn al-Khattab. She bore Asim ibn Umar to him, and then he separated from her. Umar came to Quba and found his son Asim playing in the courtyard of the mosque. He took him by the arm and placed him before him on his mount. The grandmother of the child saw him and argued with Umar about the child so they went to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq. Umar said, 'My son.' The woman said, 'My son.' Abu Bakr said, 'Do not interfere between a child and its mother.' Umar did not repeat his words."
Yahya said that he heard Malik say, "This is what I would have done in that situation." [ Malik Muwatta Hadith 1463]
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In case of a dispute between the father and mother- the mother has most rights. Then grandmother from the maternal side.
Malik related to me that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard al- Qasim ibn Muhammad say, "A woman of the Ansar was married to Umar ibn al-Khattab. She bore Asim ibn Umar to him, and then he separated from her. Umar came to Quba and found his son Asim playing in the courtyard of the mosque. He took him by the arm and placed him before him on his mount. The grandmother of the child saw him and argued with Umar about the child so they went to Abu Bakr as-Siddiq. Umar said, 'My son.' The woman said, 'My son.' Abu Bakr said, 'Do not interfere between a child and its mother.' Umar did not repeat his words."
Yahya said that he heard Malik say, "This is what I would have done in that situation." [ Malik Muwatta Hadith 1463]
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Ladies, wake up before your children become woke up.
Take control of your family and home with that which you want your family and home to be built upon.
If you don’t teach your children their religion, they will easily be fooled when those who want them, come with their false statements to “argue with a Muslim”…
To teach our children the religion, we first have to know ours.
If you swipe the slides and see the untruths this book is saying to argue with a Muslim to push the LGBT ideology- their argument isn’t even factual! (Also a lesson as to why those without knowledge should not speak about Islam because we do not know what we do not know)
I remember years ago seeing a BBC news report talking to a gay head teacher in Birmingham.
He had a big smile on his face as he proudly proclaimed he had a little 5 year old girl in his school who “BELIEVES it’s okay to have two dads”…
The key word here is BELIEVE.
These people do not want tolerance. They do not want you to live your way and they live theirs. They want you to BELIEVE their ideology is right and they will not stop until they do.
They know they will not win you over. Which is why they are going after your children.
It is a cult. It is an ideology. It is a religion.
Saying this doesn’t mean we are homophobic or transphobic, just as those who disbelieve in Islam doesn’t make them Islamophobic.
It means we do not want their beliefs and ideologies forced upon our children because those children belong to us, not them.
Ladies you have to know what is happening.
You have to protect your children.
Because if you don’t, they are easy pray.
There is no excuse for any of us, no matter where we live.
As the famous quote says:
“We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans”
May Allah aid us, guide us, and guide our children.
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Take control of your family and home with that which you want your family and home to be built upon.
If you don’t teach your children their religion, they will easily be fooled when those who want them, come with their false statements to “argue with a Muslim”…
To teach our children the religion, we first have to know ours.
If you swipe the slides and see the untruths this book is saying to argue with a Muslim to push the LGBT ideology- their argument isn’t even factual! (Also a lesson as to why those without knowledge should not speak about Islam because we do not know what we do not know)
I remember years ago seeing a BBC news report talking to a gay head teacher in Birmingham.
He had a big smile on his face as he proudly proclaimed he had a little 5 year old girl in his school who “BELIEVES it’s okay to have two dads”…
The key word here is BELIEVE.
These people do not want tolerance. They do not want you to live your way and they live theirs. They want you to BELIEVE their ideology is right and they will not stop until they do.
They know they will not win you over. Which is why they are going after your children.
It is a cult. It is an ideology. It is a religion.
Saying this doesn’t mean we are homophobic or transphobic, just as those who disbelieve in Islam doesn’t make them Islamophobic.
It means we do not want their beliefs and ideologies forced upon our children because those children belong to us, not them.
Ladies you have to know what is happening.
You have to protect your children.
Because if you don’t, they are easy pray.
There is no excuse for any of us, no matter where we live.
As the famous quote says:
“We cannot continue to send our children to Caesar for their education and be surprised when they come home as Romans”
May Allah aid us, guide us, and guide our children.
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Hasan Al-Basrī رحمه الله said:
“Looking at the face of the mother is an act of worship!
So how about obeying her?”
[Musnad Ibn Mubārak: 146]
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“Looking at the face of the mother is an act of worship!
So how about obeying her?”
[Musnad Ibn Mubārak: 146]
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from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Muslim men must give much much time to their sons and daughters, otherwise there are many Satans in the name of humans waiting for them to lead them astray.Giving time to children is more important than earning money.
Earn money what can suffice you and give much time to kids.
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Earn money what can suffice you and give much time to kids.
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Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
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If you’re doing an obligatory prayer and your parents call for you, you don’t have to answer them.
If however you’re doing a supererogatory prayer and your parents call for you, according to some jurists you can answer them, and according to others you only have to answer your mother but not your father because your mother has more right over you.
Source: Fatḥ al-Bārī fī Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī by Ibn Rajab al-Ḥanbalī (d. 795 AH).
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If however you’re doing a supererogatory prayer and your parents call for you, according to some jurists you can answer them, and according to others you only have to answer your mother but not your father because your mother has more right over you.
Source: Fatḥ al-Bārī fī Sharḥ Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī by Ibn Rajab al-Ḥanbalī (d. 795 AH).
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Today’s Beautiful Hadith is about Honouring Parents
Ibn 'Umar (RA) narrated that: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Among the most dutiful of deeds is that a man nurture relations with the people his father was friends with."
(Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1903, Book 27, Hadith 7)
Honour your parents by asking about those they used to ask about. Keep relations with those your father did and for this you will Insha'Allah get the reward of a dutiful child even after he has passed away.
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Ibn 'Umar (RA) narrated that: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Among the most dutiful of deeds is that a man nurture relations with the people his father was friends with."
(Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1903, Book 27, Hadith 7)
Honour your parents by asking about those they used to ask about. Keep relations with those your father did and for this you will Insha'Allah get the reward of a dutiful child even after he has passed away.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
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THE FIVE TYPES OF CHILDREN
There are 5 types of children in this world:
1. Does not do what his parents order him
(this type is 'aaq - i.e. undutiful/disobedient which is one of the seven majors sins)
2. Does what his parents tell, but is displeased with it (this type does not gain any reward)
3. Does what he is told , but follows it up by raising his voice, or mentioning those favors [e.g. I have done so much for you, I am always doing 'xyz' for you. this type earns a sin)
4. Does what he is told, willingly and happily (this type is rewarded), and they are few.
5. Does what his parents want before he is even told (this is the type which is al-baar al-muwafaq i.e. dutiful and kind to his parents and is given the ability to be successful in all his affairs), and they are rare.
As for the last two types, they are known as Al-Birr (the obedient)
About them, don't ask about the barakah [blessings Allah puts in person's time, wealth, health, efforts etc. whereby it increases, multiplies or a lot of good comes from something little] they will have in their life, and the vast provision (rizq i.e. wealth, knowledge, health etc. Allah gives them); and how much their hearts will be at rest; and the ease they will find in all their affairs [due to being dutiful to their parents].
The difficult question for every person is - what type of child are you?
Don't think that by simply kissing the forehead or hands, or even the feet of your parents, that you have attained their ultimate pleasure..
What is al-Birr (being dutiful and kind towards one's parents)?
... Al-Birr is to recognize what is in the heart of your parents and act upon it without waiting for an instruction.
...Al-Birr is knowing what makes them happy, then racing towards doing it; and understanding what hurts them, then striving that they don't ever see it from you!
...Al-Birr could be in something that you feel your parents desire, and you bring it to them, even a cup of tea..
...Al-Birr is that you ensure the comfort of your parents, even at the cost of your own happiness; so if your staying out late will cause them worry and stress, then you sleeping early is part of your birr (kindness) towards them.
...Al-Birr is that you miss a party that you are invited to when you feel, even for a second, that your staying out late will cause then worry and stress.
....Al-Birr is to plan a surprise Umrah or Hajj trip for your parents and arranging for them a nice hotel which they deserve!
....Al-Birr is to cheer up your parents - at an age where there does not remain a lot which brings them joy and happiness...
....Al-Birr is to spend abundantly
on your parents from your wealth even if they posses millions, without thinking twice about how much they own or whether they need it; for everything you have is only because of their hard work, and sleepless nights which they spent looking after you..
...Al-birr is to look for their comfort, and not let them exert effort to make you comfortable, for it is enough how much strived for your sake already...
There are many ways of Al-Birr which lead to -Janah (Paradise), so don't restrict it to a single kiss on the forehead which may be followed up by many shortcomings...
و قَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلاَّ تَعْبُدُواْ إِلاَّ إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا
{And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment.} (Quran 17:23).....💞
MAY ALLAH TA'ALA MAKE ALL OBEDIENT CHILDREN - NO MATTER HOW GROWN UP THEY MAY BECOME AAMEEN
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There are 5 types of children in this world:
1. Does not do what his parents order him
(this type is 'aaq - i.e. undutiful/disobedient which is one of the seven majors sins)
2. Does what his parents tell, but is displeased with it (this type does not gain any reward)
3. Does what he is told , but follows it up by raising his voice, or mentioning those favors [e.g. I have done so much for you, I am always doing 'xyz' for you. this type earns a sin)
4. Does what he is told, willingly and happily (this type is rewarded), and they are few.
5. Does what his parents want before he is even told (this is the type which is al-baar al-muwafaq i.e. dutiful and kind to his parents and is given the ability to be successful in all his affairs), and they are rare.
As for the last two types, they are known as Al-Birr (the obedient)
About them, don't ask about the barakah [blessings Allah puts in person's time, wealth, health, efforts etc. whereby it increases, multiplies or a lot of good comes from something little] they will have in their life, and the vast provision (rizq i.e. wealth, knowledge, health etc. Allah gives them); and how much their hearts will be at rest; and the ease they will find in all their affairs [due to being dutiful to their parents].
The difficult question for every person is - what type of child are you?
Don't think that by simply kissing the forehead or hands, or even the feet of your parents, that you have attained their ultimate pleasure..
What is al-Birr (being dutiful and kind towards one's parents)?
... Al-Birr is to recognize what is in the heart of your parents and act upon it without waiting for an instruction.
...Al-Birr is knowing what makes them happy, then racing towards doing it; and understanding what hurts them, then striving that they don't ever see it from you!
...Al-Birr could be in something that you feel your parents desire, and you bring it to them, even a cup of tea..
...Al-Birr is that you ensure the comfort of your parents, even at the cost of your own happiness; so if your staying out late will cause them worry and stress, then you sleeping early is part of your birr (kindness) towards them.
...Al-Birr is that you miss a party that you are invited to when you feel, even for a second, that your staying out late will cause then worry and stress.
....Al-Birr is to plan a surprise Umrah or Hajj trip for your parents and arranging for them a nice hotel which they deserve!
....Al-Birr is to cheer up your parents - at an age where there does not remain a lot which brings them joy and happiness...
....Al-Birr is to spend abundantly
on your parents from your wealth even if they posses millions, without thinking twice about how much they own or whether they need it; for everything you have is only because of their hard work, and sleepless nights which they spent looking after you..
...Al-birr is to look for their comfort, and not let them exert effort to make you comfortable, for it is enough how much strived for your sake already...
There are many ways of Al-Birr which lead to -Janah (Paradise), so don't restrict it to a single kiss on the forehead which may be followed up by many shortcomings...
و قَضَى رَبُّكَ أَلاَّ تَعْبُدُواْ إِلاَّ إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا
{And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment.} (Quran 17:23).....💞
MAY ALLAH TA'ALA MAKE ALL OBEDIENT CHILDREN - NO MATTER HOW GROWN UP THEY MAY BECOME AAMEEN
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Raising children is very difficult in this day and age, but there are certain things that only make it harder. As parents, we are all tempted to sit our kids in front of the TV or hand them an iPad or get them the latest video game systems. We feel it is our responsibility to entertain our children, but this can take a lot of time and energy. And let's face it: time and energy is always in short supply when you're a parent. So it's easier to let the electronics do the entertaining for us.
But this is a mistake. Numerous studies show that extended exposure to TV, smart phones, electronics, video games for young children causes all kinds of cognitive disadvantages. Even if the content your children consume is 100% clean and wholesome, the impact of a flickering screen is enough to decrease their attention span, decrease their ability to learn new things, decrease their language skills, and much more.
Beyond studies, I have seen this first hand and heard about it from other parents numerous times. Parents bemoan the fact that their kids are addicted to the iPad, the smartphone, the video games. I was shocked to hear that many kids over this past summer vacation were spending over 8 hours a day playing games like Fortnite!
The reality is that developers deliberately design content that is addictive. This makes everything doubly and triply dangerous. It would not be an exaggeration to say that the next generation faces an epidemic of screen addiction because they have had access from pretty much infancy.
If you are a new parent, simply avoid exposing your children to screens. There is no need for there to be a TV in family areas. There is no need to give your toddlers an iPad. Don't let them play with your smartphone if you have one. Maintain a strict no screens for children rule.
As for entertainment, ask yourself: How were all the world's children entertaining themselves before the advent of all these screens? It is not impossible! The first thing to realize is that you are not responsible for entertaining your children 24/7. You are not their personal entertainer. You are only responsible for being their parent and spending quality time with them, but that doesn't mean you have to be entertaining them all day long.
Get your kids used to entertaining themselves. This is a skill all children and, in fact, human beings need. Especially as they get to be 3-4 years old, kids should be able to spend at least some time alone. Reading, playing with toys, drawing, coloring, building with blocks, etc., etc.
I am personally very concerned about the society that is going to result from a generation that has spent a significant portion of its waking hours staring into a screen. I think the effects of this will manifest in many ways that we cannot fully comprehend until it happens. And then it will be too late. As a parent, do your part and don't give your kids the chance to become an addict.
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But this is a mistake. Numerous studies show that extended exposure to TV, smart phones, electronics, video games for young children causes all kinds of cognitive disadvantages. Even if the content your children consume is 100% clean and wholesome, the impact of a flickering screen is enough to decrease their attention span, decrease their ability to learn new things, decrease their language skills, and much more.
Beyond studies, I have seen this first hand and heard about it from other parents numerous times. Parents bemoan the fact that their kids are addicted to the iPad, the smartphone, the video games. I was shocked to hear that many kids over this past summer vacation were spending over 8 hours a day playing games like Fortnite!
The reality is that developers deliberately design content that is addictive. This makes everything doubly and triply dangerous. It would not be an exaggeration to say that the next generation faces an epidemic of screen addiction because they have had access from pretty much infancy.
If you are a new parent, simply avoid exposing your children to screens. There is no need for there to be a TV in family areas. There is no need to give your toddlers an iPad. Don't let them play with your smartphone if you have one. Maintain a strict no screens for children rule.
As for entertainment, ask yourself: How were all the world's children entertaining themselves before the advent of all these screens? It is not impossible! The first thing to realize is that you are not responsible for entertaining your children 24/7. You are not their personal entertainer. You are only responsible for being their parent and spending quality time with them, but that doesn't mean you have to be entertaining them all day long.
Get your kids used to entertaining themselves. This is a skill all children and, in fact, human beings need. Especially as they get to be 3-4 years old, kids should be able to spend at least some time alone. Reading, playing with toys, drawing, coloring, building with blocks, etc., etc.
I am personally very concerned about the society that is going to result from a generation that has spent a significant portion of its waking hours staring into a screen. I think the effects of this will manifest in many ways that we cannot fully comprehend until it happens. And then it will be too late. As a parent, do your part and don't give your kids the chance to become an addict.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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