When giving your children the opportunity to reach high level of academic education, make sure you also give them the level of Islamic knowledge that they need to keep away from the danger of secularism.
Do not offer your children Islam as a part of their name or their culture. Islam is not your cultural background - it is the backbone of your existence.
Today you find such a fine educated young man, excelling at his Duniya - but look at this helpless father.
Do not wait for your children to learn from their sins on their own. Teach them not to approach it and why. Islam is not the choice you give your children - pray if you like, eat halal if you like, wear hijab if you like, learn Islam if you like. Teach your children Islam the way you teach them every duniya-related thing. You have no choice but to go to school everyday from 8 in the morning. Do you give them a choice to go at 10 or not at all?
Think.
Do not offer your children Islam as a part of their name or their culture. Islam is not your cultural background - it is the backbone of your existence.
Today you find such a fine educated young man, excelling at his Duniya - but look at this helpless father.
Do not wait for your children to learn from their sins on their own. Teach them not to approach it and why. Islam is not the choice you give your children - pray if you like, eat halal if you like, wear hijab if you like, learn Islam if you like. Teach your children Islam the way you teach them every duniya-related thing. You have no choice but to go to school everyday from 8 in the morning. Do you give them a choice to go at 10 or not at all?
Think.
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📌Evil around us comes in numerous shapes and forms. How you deal with this is the question.
👉Hijaab: you click your selfies and share them on your social media. Everyone who has any form of resentment can give you the evil eye. Your children get sick, your health is declining, your wealth is not increasing, and your study or education becomes too hard.
Your Imaan has depleted.
These are all signs that the evil eye has befallen you.
💡Solution: get rid of your pictures on social media, and cover yourself in front of people, men, and women. Be silent about your achievements, and share only with your close ones e.g. parents, husband, or children. Don't share your happiness with any random Randy!
👉Nonmahram men: we all get that friend request, the chat message, the slithery snake.
He comes with praises and promises. Is unemployed. and a selfish womanizer. Steals your heart and when he finds a new victim he ghosts you, leaving you with heartbreak.
💡Solution: cut the cancer before it spreads! Don't add men, don't entertain them in chats, don't respond or comment. Not everyone deserves a reply! Be selective and have the honor for yourself. If a man wants to wed you he will contact your wali!
📍Keep in mind not everyone is a friend, not every person is a believer, and not everyone fears Allah the way you do.
We all have our journey in Islam, some people are disciplined and others are extremely loose in their actions.
Be alert, be focussed and know your surroundings.
May Allah protect us all and guide us to the right path aameen🤲🏼
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👉Hijaab: you click your selfies and share them on your social media. Everyone who has any form of resentment can give you the evil eye. Your children get sick, your health is declining, your wealth is not increasing, and your study or education becomes too hard.
Your Imaan has depleted.
These are all signs that the evil eye has befallen you.
💡Solution: get rid of your pictures on social media, and cover yourself in front of people, men, and women. Be silent about your achievements, and share only with your close ones e.g. parents, husband, or children. Don't share your happiness with any random Randy!
👉Nonmahram men: we all get that friend request, the chat message, the slithery snake.
He comes with praises and promises. Is unemployed. and a selfish womanizer. Steals your heart and when he finds a new victim he ghosts you, leaving you with heartbreak.
💡Solution: cut the cancer before it spreads! Don't add men, don't entertain them in chats, don't respond or comment. Not everyone deserves a reply! Be selective and have the honor for yourself. If a man wants to wed you he will contact your wali!
📍Keep in mind not everyone is a friend, not every person is a believer, and not everyone fears Allah the way you do.
We all have our journey in Islam, some people are disciplined and others are extremely loose in their actions.
Be alert, be focussed and know your surroundings.
May Allah protect us all and guide us to the right path aameen🤲🏼
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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What is worse than a man/woman grown with a father that was always away and absent?
It’s the mother that was there but was emotionally illiterate. If psychology is as important as a hill, emotional intelligence is as important as Mount Everest.
Not teaching your children emotional intelligence and money management equals raising emotional money slaves.
Combine the lack of emotional intelligent and financial illiteracy with fear of money and not having enough of it? Mismanagement of cashflow. Result? An enslaved family unit that will be the fuel—as indirect slaves—to the engine of the changing world order.
But what can a father do, he has no choice except to be away and raise children with avoidant personality disorder, right? Wrong.
It’s the father’s job to lead the mother of the child with clear instructions, so that she can lay out a secure base for the emotional development of the child.
This was much under control before the blockchain, social network, algorithms and artificial intelligence.
But now, we’re moving towards a new era in which financial illiteracy directly equals slavery—and the byproduct of this slavery is going to give birth to more broken households and avoidant personality types.
Solution? We become financially literate. We become emotionally intelligent.
Don’t overestimate psychology. It’s not that important. The real groundwork is emotional intelligence. After that, psychology can be put in perspective.
For what’s coming ahead, your wife can’t afford to be financially illiterate either.
We have to keep in mind that as Muslims, we are moving towards the afterlife, but that doesn’t mean we leave ourselves paralysed as if in a coma and doing nothing.
Many of you reading this justify being dead broke for the sake of your children. Why don’t you use your children as a fuel and an inspiration to get rich?
With all things being equal, any day, it’s the emotionally intelligent woman that’s far more superior than the psychologically intelligent woman.
Major drama is about to start as the hard cash will start disappearing. A major crash is coming.
Do you know what else is coming? A new wave of millionaires, with an astounding rise.
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It’s the mother that was there but was emotionally illiterate. If psychology is as important as a hill, emotional intelligence is as important as Mount Everest.
Not teaching your children emotional intelligence and money management equals raising emotional money slaves.
Combine the lack of emotional intelligent and financial illiteracy with fear of money and not having enough of it? Mismanagement of cashflow. Result? An enslaved family unit that will be the fuel—as indirect slaves—to the engine of the changing world order.
But what can a father do, he has no choice except to be away and raise children with avoidant personality disorder, right? Wrong.
It’s the father’s job to lead the mother of the child with clear instructions, so that she can lay out a secure base for the emotional development of the child.
This was much under control before the blockchain, social network, algorithms and artificial intelligence.
But now, we’re moving towards a new era in which financial illiteracy directly equals slavery—and the byproduct of this slavery is going to give birth to more broken households and avoidant personality types.
Solution? We become financially literate. We become emotionally intelligent.
Don’t overestimate psychology. It’s not that important. The real groundwork is emotional intelligence. After that, psychology can be put in perspective.
For what’s coming ahead, your wife can’t afford to be financially illiterate either.
We have to keep in mind that as Muslims, we are moving towards the afterlife, but that doesn’t mean we leave ourselves paralysed as if in a coma and doing nothing.
Many of you reading this justify being dead broke for the sake of your children. Why don’t you use your children as a fuel and an inspiration to get rich?
With all things being equal, any day, it’s the emotionally intelligent woman that’s far more superior than the psychologically intelligent woman.
Major drama is about to start as the hard cash will start disappearing. A major crash is coming.
Do you know what else is coming? A new wave of millionaires, with an astounding rise.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
إنما يريد الشيطان أن يوقع بينكم العداوة والبغضاء في الخمر والميسر ويصدكم عن ذكر الله وعن الصلاة فهل أنتم منتهون
Satan only wants to cause between
you animosity and hatred through intoxicants and gambling and to avert you from the remembrance of Allāh and from prayer. So will you not desist?
● {Soorah al-Ma‘idah (v. 91)}
Imām Qurtubī: This aayah indicates that it is haraam to play dice or chess, whether that involves gambling or not. Because when Allaah forbade alcohol He explained the reason for that, which is “Shaytaan wants only to excite enmity and hatred between you with intoxicants and gambling, and hinder you from the remembrance of Allaah and from As-Salaah.”
So every kind of game in which a little leads to a lot and stirs up enmity and hatred between those who are devoted to it and prevents them from remembering Allaah and praying, is like drinking alcohol, which implies that it must be haraam like alcohol.
● {Tafsīr al-Qurtubī (v. 6, p. 291)}
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Satan only wants to cause between
you animosity and hatred through intoxicants and gambling and to avert you from the remembrance of Allāh and from prayer. So will you not desist?
● {Soorah al-Ma‘idah (v. 91)}
Imām Qurtubī: This aayah indicates that it is haraam to play dice or chess, whether that involves gambling or not. Because when Allaah forbade alcohol He explained the reason for that, which is “Shaytaan wants only to excite enmity and hatred between you with intoxicants and gambling, and hinder you from the remembrance of Allaah and from As-Salaah.”
So every kind of game in which a little leads to a lot and stirs up enmity and hatred between those who are devoted to it and prevents them from remembering Allaah and praying, is like drinking alcohol, which implies that it must be haraam like alcohol.
● {Tafsīr al-Qurtubī (v. 6, p. 291)}
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💎 Do not become distracted from your children!! 💎
(Forwarded from @MorabyAlqrnDalailcentre on telegram)
Children are growing up physically but they are weakening religiously.
They are being fed well but they are hungry for love, care, and harmony!!
And time now is no longer the same as before.
The day you lose sight of your child, their mind will be attacked by a thousand wrong ideas, their eyes will be attacked by a million bad videos, and their time will be invaded by a million evil matters that distract them from good.
Then how about those who leave their children for months and ages without advice or a parenting and counseling session?!!
Fathers, your children are not in need of new clothes, a big allowance, or abundant inheritance if you do not instill in them the love of Allāh and that He is watching them, and if you don’t discover the aspects of good in them and give those aspects good care and nurture them, and know the evil aspects in them and remove them and purify your children from them.
O parents,
Do not justify that by the lack of time, and thus be dishonest with yourselves, for the companions of the Prophet ﷺ used to conquer the world and then return to their children, purify their hearts, bring them up well, and pass to them their religion and morals.
And do not justify that for yourselves, for men have effects on their children and women have their touches on them, and they are both indispensable for the child.
And do not justify that by seeking to make a living for them, for the worst provision is that which gives the Ummah well-fed bodies, but sleazy and weak morals!!
Time is now difficult, and our children, by Allāh, are poor and they need care many times more than the care we used to be given when we were their age, and that’s due to the contrast between the fitan and temptations in their time and in ours!!
Get back to your household, and become satiated with hugs and by closeness to your children.
Play with them, tell them stories that cultivate virtues in them, and listen to them a lot.
Leave your phones for their sake, and devote enough time for these innocent ones.
Put the whole worldly life aside for the sake of your own flesh and blood, for the sincere duāʾ of a righteous son or daughter for you, after your death, saying: "O Lord, forgive me and my parents", is better for you than all the trifles that distracted you from them.
💐 A dose of parenting 💐
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(Forwarded from @MorabyAlqrnDalailcentre on telegram)
Children are growing up physically but they are weakening religiously.
They are being fed well but they are hungry for love, care, and harmony!!
And time now is no longer the same as before.
The day you lose sight of your child, their mind will be attacked by a thousand wrong ideas, their eyes will be attacked by a million bad videos, and their time will be invaded by a million evil matters that distract them from good.
Then how about those who leave their children for months and ages without advice or a parenting and counseling session?!!
Fathers, your children are not in need of new clothes, a big allowance, or abundant inheritance if you do not instill in them the love of Allāh and that He is watching them, and if you don’t discover the aspects of good in them and give those aspects good care and nurture them, and know the evil aspects in them and remove them and purify your children from them.
O parents,
Do not justify that by the lack of time, and thus be dishonest with yourselves, for the companions of the Prophet ﷺ used to conquer the world and then return to their children, purify their hearts, bring them up well, and pass to them their religion and morals.
And do not justify that for yourselves, for men have effects on their children and women have their touches on them, and they are both indispensable for the child.
And do not justify that by seeking to make a living for them, for the worst provision is that which gives the Ummah well-fed bodies, but sleazy and weak morals!!
Time is now difficult, and our children, by Allāh, are poor and they need care many times more than the care we used to be given when we were their age, and that’s due to the contrast between the fitan and temptations in their time and in ours!!
Get back to your household, and become satiated with hugs and by closeness to your children.
Play with them, tell them stories that cultivate virtues in them, and listen to them a lot.
Leave your phones for their sake, and devote enough time for these innocent ones.
Put the whole worldly life aside for the sake of your own flesh and blood, for the sincere duāʾ of a righteous son or daughter for you, after your death, saying: "O Lord, forgive me and my parents", is better for you than all the trifles that distracted you from them.
💐 A dose of parenting 💐
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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Don't address them as kids!
One of the common mistakes when dealing with young men who are about to hit puberty - or sometimes even those who already reached puberty - is being addressed by their non-mahram female relatives and female teachers as if they are still kids;
While bearing in mind the strong reservations about young men having female teachers in the first place, which is another topic altogether.
You see a young man of 13 or 14 years of age, who might have already reached puberty, yet his female teacher or his mother's friend calls him "Sweetheart" out of "kindness"!
Respected ones, we shouldn't address young men like kids!
Everything around them undermines their intellect and weakens their sense of responsibility; from their upbringing, to the "education" system which turns them into idle and dependent individuals - unable to make a living until they earn their bachelor's degree - to the media of mediocrity and nonsense...
Address him as: 'O' young man' or 'My son'...
But don't make him feel as if he is still a kid. For he is either going to dislike the manner in which you address him, or it's going to weaken the sense of responsibility and manhood within him more than it already has been!
We want to instill within our children the sense of responsibility and the true meaning of manhood.
🎯 Those whom you call "Sweetheart" are the same age as Muadh & Muawwidh the sons of Afra who killed Abu Jahl, 'The pharaoh of this Ummah'.
🎯 They are the same age as Usama ibn Zayd when the Prophet ﷺ appointed him to be the commander and leader of the Muslim army.
🎯 They are the same age as Al-Arqam ibn Abi al-Arqam when he used to host the Prophet ﷺ and the Muslims at his house at the time the Muslims were being persecuted and had to keep their gatherings secret.
🎯 They are the same age as Alī ibn Abī Ṭālib & Zubayr ibn al-'Awwam when they accepted Islam, and became defenders and guardians of the religion of Allah, and many other companions - may Allah be pleased with them.
🔶 The Ummah needs real men, so don't treat them like kids.
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@EyadQunaibi1
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One of the common mistakes when dealing with young men who are about to hit puberty - or sometimes even those who already reached puberty - is being addressed by their non-mahram female relatives and female teachers as if they are still kids;
While bearing in mind the strong reservations about young men having female teachers in the first place, which is another topic altogether.
You see a young man of 13 or 14 years of age, who might have already reached puberty, yet his female teacher or his mother's friend calls him "Sweetheart" out of "kindness"!
Respected ones, we shouldn't address young men like kids!
Everything around them undermines their intellect and weakens their sense of responsibility; from their upbringing, to the "education" system which turns them into idle and dependent individuals - unable to make a living until they earn their bachelor's degree - to the media of mediocrity and nonsense...
Address him as: 'O' young man' or 'My son'...
But don't make him feel as if he is still a kid. For he is either going to dislike the manner in which you address him, or it's going to weaken the sense of responsibility and manhood within him more than it already has been!
We want to instill within our children the sense of responsibility and the true meaning of manhood.
🎯 Those whom you call "Sweetheart" are the same age as Muadh & Muawwidh the sons of Afra who killed Abu Jahl, 'The pharaoh of this Ummah'.
🎯 They are the same age as Usama ibn Zayd when the Prophet ﷺ appointed him to be the commander and leader of the Muslim army.
🎯 They are the same age as Al-Arqam ibn Abi al-Arqam when he used to host the Prophet ﷺ and the Muslims at his house at the time the Muslims were being persecuted and had to keep their gatherings secret.
🎯 They are the same age as Alī ibn Abī Ṭālib & Zubayr ibn al-'Awwam when they accepted Islam, and became defenders and guardians of the religion of Allah, and many other companions - may Allah be pleased with them.
🔶 The Ummah needs real men, so don't treat them like kids.
_
@EyadQunaibi1
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Muslim Children Tips
"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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MOTHERHOOD
Motherhood is one of the greatest and prestigious qualities of women. Allāh ordained various rulings that stem from motherhood; rulings related to pregnancy, breastfeeding, kindness, mercy, and other matters of this sort that flow out of her heart. Not to mention her overwhelming emotions towards her children; she is the one who carries, breastfeed, educate them, and stay sleepless for the sake of their comfort. Accordingly, Allāh rewarded her with making Paradise under her feet.
Book: Contributions Of The Muslim Woman in Giving Sincere Advice
By Shaykh Doctor Ridā bin Khālid Būshāmah
Translated by Abdullah Omrān
Maktabatulirshad Publications
P. 23
Motherhood is one of the greatest and prestigious qualities of women. Allāh ordained various rulings that stem from motherhood; rulings related to pregnancy, breastfeeding, kindness, mercy, and other matters of this sort that flow out of her heart. Not to mention her overwhelming emotions towards her children; she is the one who carries, breastfeed, educate them, and stay sleepless for the sake of their comfort. Accordingly, Allāh rewarded her with making Paradise under her feet.
Book: Contributions Of The Muslim Woman in Giving Sincere Advice
By Shaykh Doctor Ridā bin Khālid Būshāmah
Translated by Abdullah Omrān
Maktabatulirshad Publications
P. 23
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Modern Life for Children:
1. Junk food/ fast food/ sugar
2. TV
3. Video games
4. Phone
5. Tiktok/ YouTube/ Social media
6. High-tech toys
7. Online "communities" / chat groups (predators/ groomers/ HDTV÷ inspiration)
8. Public school
9. Music nonstop
10. Sexual degeneracy / exposure to p*rn from a young age
11. Drugs/ chemicals/ Big Pharma
12. Foul language/ cursing
13. Gender mixing
14. Revealing / sexualizing clothing / sexy fashion even for very little girls
15. No parental authority, parental power replaced by peer pressure
These are all the elements of today's climate. This is what has become normalized and socially accepted as a way to raise children.
Children who are raised on these destructive elements grow up physically diseased, emotionally unstable, mentally stunted, and psychologically disturbed.
Physically, they are riddled with illnesses and their immune systems are fragile. Their teeth are decayed and cavity-riddled from the fake food, chemical additives, synthetic food dyes they're consuming. Their attention span has been greatly reduced from all the screens they've been staring at since birth. Their mind has been poisoned with degenerate content from violent and hyper-sexualized song lyrics and movie plots and explicit videos. They are vulgar and foul-mouthed, and suffer from a gamut of unhealthy addictions to video games, phones, ipads, soda, p*rn, music, Adderall/ Ritalin.
These children live soft, selfish, sedentary lives, almost always seated passively receiving something external. In school, they sit for hours at desks receiving "education" from teachers, and at home they sit on the couch receiving "entertainment" from a screen. They are rarely active, rarely moving.
Childhood obseity and childhood diseases of the body, mind, and heart are rampant. Many develop a love-hate relationship with food. Body dysmorphia starts from a young age. Young girls, especially, fall into eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia. Young boys are over-medicated with drugs for their natural boyish energy, which is pathologized as ADHD.
Many children suffer from a severe lack of parental affection and notice, so they act out in a bid for their parents' attention. Yet they simultaneously see their parents as bumbling idiots whom they can easily outsmart, because that's what children's cartoons and TV shows often portray. They have very little respect for their own parents, or for adults generally.
Since they are so lonely, isolated, and starved for attention, many children flock to online spaces looking for love and a sense of belonging. There they stumble across "communities" for various groups, most dangerous among them are the ones that make them think they are stuck in the "wrong body," they are the "wrong gender." They develop gender dysphoria so they can fit into this group of misfits and finally feel like they belong somewhere, even if it's a toxic online cult. There, as well as in public school, children are taught to do things in secret behind their parents' back, because parents "don't understand" their transition.
Children are not taught any healthy conception of masculinity or femininity. They get stuck in a sad, odd state of androgyny, undecided and at war with themselves and unable to accept themselves as they naturally are.
Many children lose their innocence at an incredibly young age. They view sexually explicit material online due to their unrestricted access to phones and devices. Then they begin to act out what they see online with other kids, sending each other nudes and sexting and "exploring their sexuality" with both genders and by themselves through masturbation. Even their parents tell them that casual meaningless sex in elementary and middle school is "healthy" as long as it's "safe" and they practice "consent." Children are plunged into a world of sexual immorality early. They develop a love-hate relationship with sex and grow into either sex addicts or sexually unhealthy adults with baggage.
1. Junk food/ fast food/ sugar
2. TV
3. Video games
4. Phone
5. Tiktok/ YouTube/ Social media
6. High-tech toys
7. Online "communities" / chat groups (predators/ groomers/ HDTV÷ inspiration)
8. Public school
9. Music nonstop
10. Sexual degeneracy / exposure to p*rn from a young age
11. Drugs/ chemicals/ Big Pharma
12. Foul language/ cursing
13. Gender mixing
14. Revealing / sexualizing clothing / sexy fashion even for very little girls
15. No parental authority, parental power replaced by peer pressure
These are all the elements of today's climate. This is what has become normalized and socially accepted as a way to raise children.
Children who are raised on these destructive elements grow up physically diseased, emotionally unstable, mentally stunted, and psychologically disturbed.
Physically, they are riddled with illnesses and their immune systems are fragile. Their teeth are decayed and cavity-riddled from the fake food, chemical additives, synthetic food dyes they're consuming. Their attention span has been greatly reduced from all the screens they've been staring at since birth. Their mind has been poisoned with degenerate content from violent and hyper-sexualized song lyrics and movie plots and explicit videos. They are vulgar and foul-mouthed, and suffer from a gamut of unhealthy addictions to video games, phones, ipads, soda, p*rn, music, Adderall/ Ritalin.
These children live soft, selfish, sedentary lives, almost always seated passively receiving something external. In school, they sit for hours at desks receiving "education" from teachers, and at home they sit on the couch receiving "entertainment" from a screen. They are rarely active, rarely moving.
Childhood obseity and childhood diseases of the body, mind, and heart are rampant. Many develop a love-hate relationship with food. Body dysmorphia starts from a young age. Young girls, especially, fall into eating disorders like anorexia and bulimia. Young boys are over-medicated with drugs for their natural boyish energy, which is pathologized as ADHD.
Many children suffer from a severe lack of parental affection and notice, so they act out in a bid for their parents' attention. Yet they simultaneously see their parents as bumbling idiots whom they can easily outsmart, because that's what children's cartoons and TV shows often portray. They have very little respect for their own parents, or for adults generally.
Since they are so lonely, isolated, and starved for attention, many children flock to online spaces looking for love and a sense of belonging. There they stumble across "communities" for various groups, most dangerous among them are the ones that make them think they are stuck in the "wrong body," they are the "wrong gender." They develop gender dysphoria so they can fit into this group of misfits and finally feel like they belong somewhere, even if it's a toxic online cult. There, as well as in public school, children are taught to do things in secret behind their parents' back, because parents "don't understand" their transition.
Children are not taught any healthy conception of masculinity or femininity. They get stuck in a sad, odd state of androgyny, undecided and at war with themselves and unable to accept themselves as they naturally are.
Many children lose their innocence at an incredibly young age. They view sexually explicit material online due to their unrestricted access to phones and devices. Then they begin to act out what they see online with other kids, sending each other nudes and sexting and "exploring their sexuality" with both genders and by themselves through masturbation. Even their parents tell them that casual meaningless sex in elementary and middle school is "healthy" as long as it's "safe" and they practice "consent." Children are plunged into a world of sexual immorality early. They develop a love-hate relationship with sex and grow into either sex addicts or sexually unhealthy adults with baggage.
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We live in a modern world which is really a nightmarish dystopia, especially for children.
What are some solutions, some alternatives for us as Muslims raising Muslim children?
1. Real food/ whole food
2. No screens of any kind
3. No phones for kids
4. Real games instead of video games
5. Outdoor play
6. Nature walks/ exploration
7. Physical movement/ rough-housing play/ natural exercise to get the blood pumping and body moving
8. Low-tech toys (made of wood, not plastic)
9. Homeschool, not mass schooling
10. Quran, not music
11. Islamic learning
12. Respect for parents, obedience instilled from a young age
13. Real community, not online "community" of "kiddie culture"
14. Islamic manners and etiquette in speech and action
15. Modest clothing
May Allah guide us to give our children the best and most wholesome Islamic tarbiya, and allow us to sidestep the modern mainstream childrearing norms that harm children's bodies, hearts, minds, and souls. May He grant us healthy, strong, balanced Muslim children raised on Islam with their fitra intact. Ameen.
What are some solutions, some alternatives for us as Muslims raising Muslim children?
1. Real food/ whole food
2. No screens of any kind
3. No phones for kids
4. Real games instead of video games
5. Outdoor play
6. Nature walks/ exploration
7. Physical movement/ rough-housing play/ natural exercise to get the blood pumping and body moving
8. Low-tech toys (made of wood, not plastic)
9. Homeschool, not mass schooling
10. Quran, not music
11. Islamic learning
12. Respect for parents, obedience instilled from a young age
13. Real community, not online "community" of "kiddie culture"
14. Islamic manners and etiquette in speech and action
15. Modest clothing
May Allah guide us to give our children the best and most wholesome Islamic tarbiya, and allow us to sidestep the modern mainstream childrearing norms that harm children's bodies, hearts, minds, and souls. May He grant us healthy, strong, balanced Muslim children raised on Islam with their fitra intact. Ameen.
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
🌿⛅ The Early Morning Hours⛅🌿
The best thing to do during the early morning hours is to be preoccupied with prayer, Qur’an, supplication, remembrance of Allah, and asking His Forgiveness.
[Ibn al-Qayyim; ‘Madarij as-Salikin’ (1/188)]
The best thing to do during the early morning hours is to be preoccupied with prayer, Qur’an, supplication, remembrance of Allah, and asking His Forgiveness.
[Ibn al-Qayyim; ‘Madarij as-Salikin’ (1/188)]
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Reminder for Parents:
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
Command For Marriage Regarding Children:
The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihe wasallam) Commanded regarding children, " If they neglect salaah at the age of seven, then reprimand them, at the age of nine separate their beds (do not let two of them sleep in the same bed) and at the age of seventeen get them married. Once the father has carried this out he should place his child before him and say, ‘ May Allah not make you a cause for my testing and trial."
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
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Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said:
“The fact that a man has offspring does not raise his rank, unless if there are pious children amongst his offspring who are obedient to Allaah.”
(Al-Jawaab As-Saheeh 219/5)
“The fact that a man has offspring does not raise his rank, unless if there are pious children amongst his offspring who are obedient to Allaah.”
(Al-Jawaab As-Saheeh 219/5)
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Serious Question👉Are you all spending enough time with your immediate families❓As a daughter/son that means your parents and your siblings. As a parent that means with your spouse and children.
If the answer is NO❗️Then ditch the friend, Do the dishes later, Homework can be put off. Put the phone away❗️
Spending time with one’s family and having fun together is a major factor in keeping the family united and close. It develops trust and love for each other and brings peace to the household. True Muslims find peace and enjoyment at home with their own families and do not need to escape from them to be entertained. It is this family unity that has been lost in the modern age, when each member of the family lives a separate life. Sadly, although the members of a family may live under one roof, they may not even meet to share a meal together. If we are to revive the unity of our families, we must revive the concept of family time.
If the answer is NO❗️Then ditch the friend, Do the dishes later, Homework can be put off. Put the phone away❗️
Spending time with one’s family and having fun together is a major factor in keeping the family united and close. It develops trust and love for each other and brings peace to the household. True Muslims find peace and enjoyment at home with their own families and do not need to escape from them to be entertained. It is this family unity that has been lost in the modern age, when each member of the family lives a separate life. Sadly, although the members of a family may live under one roof, they may not even meet to share a meal together. If we are to revive the unity of our families, we must revive the concept of family time.
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
Allah destroyed your dreams and plans before they could destroy you.
▪️You lost a relationship, perhaps it was going to turn abusive.
▪️You didn't get a job, perhaps it was filled with a toxic work environment.
▪️You didn't get to travel to a place, perhaps a natural calamity was going to happen there.
▪️You couldn't immigrate to a western country, perhaps the pressure would have split your family and destroyed your married life.
That's the beauty of "thinking always good of Allah".
His no is His redirection and protection.
Let go.
Some dreams have to die for better more worthy dreams to materialize.
Stick to the 3S.
Sabr.
Salah.
Shukr.
🤲 Allah bless us with akhira vision, bless us with hamd in our every word, bless us with peace and contentment, help us focus on what we have and help us forget what was lost - Ameen.
▪️You lost a relationship, perhaps it was going to turn abusive.
▪️You didn't get a job, perhaps it was filled with a toxic work environment.
▪️You didn't get to travel to a place, perhaps a natural calamity was going to happen there.
▪️You couldn't immigrate to a western country, perhaps the pressure would have split your family and destroyed your married life.
That's the beauty of "thinking always good of Allah".
His no is His redirection and protection.
Let go.
Some dreams have to die for better more worthy dreams to materialize.
Stick to the 3S.
Sabr.
Salah.
Shukr.
🤲 Allah bless us with akhira vision, bless us with hamd in our every word, bless us with peace and contentment, help us focus on what we have and help us forget what was lost - Ameen.
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Abu Darda رضي الله عنه said a man came to the Prophet of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ and complained about the hardness of his heart.
The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:
“Would you like for your heart to become soft and for you to find what you are looking for?
Be compassionate to the orphan and pat his head, and feed him from what you eat. Then your heart will become soft, and you will find what you are looking for.”
Saheeh al-Jāmi' 80 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Saheeh
The Messenger of Allāh صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ said:
“Would you like for your heart to become soft and for you to find what you are looking for?
Be compassionate to the orphan and pat his head, and feed him from what you eat. Then your heart will become soft, and you will find what you are looking for.”
Saheeh al-Jāmi' 80 | Shaykh al-Albāni رحمه الله | Saheeh
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