Nowadays, parents send their brightest children to top ranking universities, and they send their children - who fail at everything else - to study Islamic sciences.!!
Then these same parents complain about the low quality of Islamic scholarships!
Why don’t you send your brightest children to study Islam, so you can produce high quality scholars?
Then, some of these children who were pushed into Islamic studies because they were failures in life, grow up, hating worldly education and discourage the society from making money etc. because they didn’t have them.
As the saying goes:
!دستش به آلو نمیرسه میگه آلو ترش است
‘𝗛𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝘂𝗺, 𝘀𝗼 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱: 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝘂𝗺 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗿!’
Nowadays, they also try to mix orphanages with madaris, and beg everyone to help the madaris for the sake of the orphans - this is also a mistake.
If you do that, many people will be put off from sending their children to study Islamic sciences, they will associate it with orphans and begging.
In the past, Islamic sciences were considered prestigious, people used to send their brightest children to study Islamic sciences - that’s why we flourished and produced so many great intellectuals.
We should restore the honour and lost prestige of Islamic education, remove the dust that covers its shine.
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Then these same parents complain about the low quality of Islamic scholarships!
Why don’t you send your brightest children to study Islam, so you can produce high quality scholars?
Then, some of these children who were pushed into Islamic studies because they were failures in life, grow up, hating worldly education and discourage the society from making money etc. because they didn’t have them.
As the saying goes:
!دستش به آلو نمیرسه میگه آلو ترش است
‘𝗛𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝘂𝗺, 𝘀𝗼 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝗶𝗱: 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗹𝘂𝗺 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗿!’
Nowadays, they also try to mix orphanages with madaris, and beg everyone to help the madaris for the sake of the orphans - this is also a mistake.
If you do that, many people will be put off from sending their children to study Islamic sciences, they will associate it with orphans and begging.
In the past, Islamic sciences were considered prestigious, people used to send their brightest children to study Islamic sciences - that’s why we flourished and produced so many great intellectuals.
We should restore the honour and lost prestige of Islamic education, remove the dust that covers its shine.
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Imām ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
“How many people have caused misery to their own children, the apples of their eyes, in this world and in the Hereafter, by neglecting them, not disciplining them, encouraging them to follow their whims and desires, thinking that they were honouring them when they were in fact humiliating them, that they were being merciful to them when in fact they were wronging them.
They have not benefited from having a child, and they have made the child lose his share in this world and in the Hereafter.
If you think about the corruption of children you will see that in most cases it is because of the parents.”
[Tuhfat al-Mawlood, Page. 146]
“How many people have caused misery to their own children, the apples of their eyes, in this world and in the Hereafter, by neglecting them, not disciplining them, encouraging them to follow their whims and desires, thinking that they were honouring them when they were in fact humiliating them, that they were being merciful to them when in fact they were wronging them.
They have not benefited from having a child, and they have made the child lose his share in this world and in the Hereafter.
If you think about the corruption of children you will see that in most cases it is because of the parents.”
[Tuhfat al-Mawlood, Page. 146]
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Forwarded from Jannah is Our Dream
When You Have Business, Travel Or Marriage Plans Make Sure You Keep It a Secret.....
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Imam Ahmad's reaction on the birth of the daughters.
Ibn al Qayyim said:
وقال صالح بن أحمد : كان أبي إذا ولد له ابنة يقول : الأنبياء كانوا آباء بنات . ويقول : قد جاء في البنات ما قد علمت .
وقال يعقوب بن بختان : ولد لي سبع بنات ، فكنت كلما ولد لي ابنة دخلت على أحمد بن حنبل فيقول لي : يا أبا يوسف ، الأنبياء آباء بنات ؛ فكان يذهب قوله همي
Saaleh bin Ahmad said: Whenever a daughter would born to my father (Ahmad bin Hanbal), He would say: The Prophets were the fathers of the daughters, and You know what is mentioned regarding them (in Quran and sunnah).
Yaqub bin Bakhtan said: I had 7 daughters and Imam Ahmad would come to me and say: O Abu Yusaf: The Prophets were fathers of the daughters, His saying would relief my sorrow. [Tuhfa tul Mawdood page 26]
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Ibn al Qayyim said:
وقال صالح بن أحمد : كان أبي إذا ولد له ابنة يقول : الأنبياء كانوا آباء بنات . ويقول : قد جاء في البنات ما قد علمت .
وقال يعقوب بن بختان : ولد لي سبع بنات ، فكنت كلما ولد لي ابنة دخلت على أحمد بن حنبل فيقول لي : يا أبا يوسف ، الأنبياء آباء بنات ؛ فكان يذهب قوله همي
Saaleh bin Ahmad said: Whenever a daughter would born to my father (Ahmad bin Hanbal), He would say: The Prophets were the fathers of the daughters, and You know what is mentioned regarding them (in Quran and sunnah).
Yaqub bin Bakhtan said: I had 7 daughters and Imam Ahmad would come to me and say: O Abu Yusaf: The Prophets were fathers of the daughters, His saying would relief my sorrow. [Tuhfa tul Mawdood page 26]
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𝐎𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐃𝐚𝐲
𝔸𝕝𝕝𝕒𝕙 سبحانه وتعالى 𝕊𝕒𝕪𝕤,
يَوْمَ يَفِرُّ الْمَرْءُ مِنْ أَخِيهِ
"(That will be) the Day a man will flee from his brother.
وَأُمِّهِ وَأَبِيهِ
And (from) his mother and his father.
وَصَاحِبَتِهِ وَبَنِيهِ
And (from) his wife and his children."
[Qur'an 80:34-36]
Al-Qurtubi رحمه الله mentioned some of the reasons why a person will flee from his close and beloved on the Day of Resurrection.
🔹Every person will be preoccupied (worried) about themselves.
🔹Out of fear of being asked for rights that are due upon him from others.
🔹He will not want others to see the severe and difficult situation he is in.
🔹Due to him knowing that he will not be helped and benefited by them in any way whatsoever.
[Tafseer al-Qurtubi, vol.22, pgs.89-90, Resalah Publishers, 1st edition]
𝔸𝕝𝕝𝕒𝕙 سبحانه وتعالى 𝕊𝕒𝕪𝕤,
يَوْمَ يَفِرُّ الْمَرْءُ مِنْ أَخِيهِ
"(That will be) the Day a man will flee from his brother.
وَأُمِّهِ وَأَبِيهِ
And (from) his mother and his father.
وَصَاحِبَتِهِ وَبَنِيهِ
And (from) his wife and his children."
[Qur'an 80:34-36]
Al-Qurtubi رحمه الله mentioned some of the reasons why a person will flee from his close and beloved on the Day of Resurrection.
🔹Every person will be preoccupied (worried) about themselves.
🔹Out of fear of being asked for rights that are due upon him from others.
🔹He will not want others to see the severe and difficult situation he is in.
🔹Due to him knowing that he will not be helped and benefited by them in any way whatsoever.
[Tafseer al-Qurtubi, vol.22, pgs.89-90, Resalah Publishers, 1st edition]
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Always be honest with ur kids, don't just teach them to be honest, SHOW them honesty.
This hadith reminds me of this incident of Imam Bukhari (rahmatullah):
Imam Bukhari (rahimahullaah) travelled to meet a man in order to take hadeeth from him. But he saw this man calling his horse with an empty vessel in his hand, as if there was food in that vessel, moving it in order for the horse to come near so he can grab the horse. So Imam Bukahri asked him, “What is in that vessel?” And the man said, “Nothing.” Then Imam Bukhari said, “By Allaah, I will NOT take hadeeth from you, because you are a LIAR.” Subhaan Allah!
Reference for the hadith: 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him." [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 387: classed Sahih by Shaykh Al Albaani]
This hadith reminds me of this incident of Imam Bukhari (rahmatullah):
Imam Bukhari (rahimahullaah) travelled to meet a man in order to take hadeeth from him. But he saw this man calling his horse with an empty vessel in his hand, as if there was food in that vessel, moving it in order for the horse to come near so he can grab the horse. So Imam Bukahri asked him, “What is in that vessel?” And the man said, “Nothing.” Then Imam Bukhari said, “By Allaah, I will NOT take hadeeth from you, because you are a LIAR.” Subhaan Allah!
Reference for the hadith: 'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him." [Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 387: classed Sahih by Shaykh Al Albaani]
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Paying back your mother
Ibn Umar رضي الله عنه saw a Yemeni man doing tawaf carrying his mother, and he was saying:
“I am her humble camel. If her mount is scared, I am not scared.”
Then he said,
“O Ibn Umar, do you think I have repaid her?”
Ibn Umar رضي الله عنه said:
“No, not even for a single pang (of pregnancy).”
Ibn Umar رضي الله عنه saw a Yemeni man doing tawaf carrying his mother, and he was saying:
“I am her humble camel. If her mount is scared, I am not scared.”
Then he said,
“O Ibn Umar, do you think I have repaid her?”
Ibn Umar رضي الله عنه said:
“No, not even for a single pang (of pregnancy).”
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A RIGHTEOUS UPBRINGING IS THROUGH EXAMPLE
The performance of worship is the greatest aid to the woman in fulfilling her household duties with perfection.
The righteous woman is the one who fulfills her role in the desired fashion. Likewise, the basis of a righteous upbringing is through example, as the woman performing this worship with humility and serenity has the greatest effect upon those within the home, from the children and other than them. When the woman perfects her Wudū and then stands before her Lord with humility and submission, then she will cultivate the children upon these good qualities through her example, in addition to a clarification and direction through her speech.
Book: A Woman's Guide to Raising a Family
By Shaykh Sālih al-Fawzān
Translated by Raha Batts
Hikmah Publications
P. 23, 24
The performance of worship is the greatest aid to the woman in fulfilling her household duties with perfection.
The righteous woman is the one who fulfills her role in the desired fashion. Likewise, the basis of a righteous upbringing is through example, as the woman performing this worship with humility and serenity has the greatest effect upon those within the home, from the children and other than them. When the woman perfects her Wudū and then stands before her Lord with humility and submission, then she will cultivate the children upon these good qualities through her example, in addition to a clarification and direction through her speech.
Book: A Woman's Guide to Raising a Family
By Shaykh Sālih al-Fawzān
Translated by Raha Batts
Hikmah Publications
P. 23, 24
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When a servant is hot tempered we play with him just as kids play with a ball .. said the devil.
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Ibn ‘Umar, [may Allāh be pleased with him and his father], said:
“O’ you there! Teach and guide your son in cultivating good manners because, as a parent, you hold a responsibility for him, and in turn, he bears the responsibility of reflecting your kindness.”
Mawsū‘ah ibn Abi ad-Dunyah, 8/78 | Al-Imam ibn Abi Dunyah, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him].
Translation: Authentic Quotes
“O’ you there! Teach and guide your son in cultivating good manners because, as a parent, you hold a responsibility for him, and in turn, he bears the responsibility of reflecting your kindness.”
Mawsū‘ah ibn Abi ad-Dunyah, 8/78 | Al-Imam ibn Abi Dunyah, [may Allāh bestow mercy upon him].
Translation: Authentic Quotes
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Parents, teach your children responsibility and discipline at home, as part of proper tarbiya.
When you coddle and baby your children because you want to avoid the difficult task of child-raising, you foist irresponsible and insufferable grown infants on society and force others to raise your children for you when it's way past the time for raising them.
Instead of this being your problem, you've made it everyone else's problem.
Not only is this unfair to society, it is unfair to your children, who were not raised properly and find themselves inept and incompetent as adults.
The solution is for parents to give their children the appropriate amount of love and mercy on the one hand, as well as "tough love" and justice on the other, and to instill in the children a sense of responsibility, accountability, and discipline.
Don't force society to teach all this to your children. If you can't bring yourself to be "harsh" with your children, know that society will be much harsher when teaching them these lessons.
The irony is that modern people consider a mother who stays home to raise her children properly "not contributing to society."
How ironic!
When you coddle and baby your children because you want to avoid the difficult task of child-raising, you foist irresponsible and insufferable grown infants on society and force others to raise your children for you when it's way past the time for raising them.
Instead of this being your problem, you've made it everyone else's problem.
Not only is this unfair to society, it is unfair to your children, who were not raised properly and find themselves inept and incompetent as adults.
The solution is for parents to give their children the appropriate amount of love and mercy on the one hand, as well as "tough love" and justice on the other, and to instill in the children a sense of responsibility, accountability, and discipline.
Don't force society to teach all this to your children. If you can't bring yourself to be "harsh" with your children, know that society will be much harsher when teaching them these lessons.
The irony is that modern people consider a mother who stays home to raise her children properly "not contributing to society."
How ironic!
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Teach your children from a young age that it isn't allowed for us to join Christmas parties or exchange gifts on these occasions; we only have two Eids, Eidul Fitr & Eidul Ad'ha.
علّموا أطفالكم من بداية صغرهم أنه ليس مسموحاً لنا الانضمام إلى حفلات عيد الميلاد أو تبادل الهدايا في هذه المناسبات؛ لدينا فقط عيدين، عيد الفطر وعيد الأضحى.
علّموا أطفالكم من بداية صغرهم أنه ليس مسموحاً لنا الانضمام إلى حفلات عيد الميلاد أو تبادل الهدايا في هذه المناسبات؛ لدينا فقط عيدين، عيد الفطر وعيد الأضحى.
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"A woman should train her children properly, for her children represent the men and women of the future."
Shaykh Saalih ibn Uthaymeen (rahimahullaah)
from The Uprightness of a Woman.
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